I am a working Hindu woman of 30 yrs, married for nearly 5 yrs . My hubby is 35 yrs old. We faced a lot of problems since our marriage day bcoz of his greedy mother. My hubby is too much influenced by his mother as she has taken care of him and his brother since childhood as his father was posted in army and was away. My hubby is a total mama's boy.
Due to his mother's interference our relationship has suffered a lot. His mother has done everything she can do to destroy our marriage.
Regarding my hubby's family, his parents are staying in the native town and both r working and earning quite good. My brother-in-law (hubby's younger brother) is married and is having 2 kids. He is working in Gujrat and has left his wife and kids at his parents' place.
As we both r working my MIL wants tht we send a lot of money to them as my BIL's family is staying with her.She wants total control on our money and also on me.She had created so much of tension between me and my hubby tht my hubby even dint want a kid.
We had a lot of fight due to this and also due to his mother's unnecesseary demands of money.
My hubby was initially caring and lovable husband. But slowly he started controlling me (he ll decide wht I shud wear, wht I shud eat, how we shud spend our money) fighting with me on unnecesaary issues.Last year I found that my hubby has started sending lot of money to his mother without my knowledge. We fought a lot becoz of this and I decided not to share my salary with him. He started demanding portion of my salary and was abusing me verbally for this often.
After all these I thought may be having a kid will fix all the issues in our relationships. This year I got pregnant but things got worse. My parents are also staying in the same city. My hubby started fighting with me when I visited my parents. He didnt take any care of me. Fearing of miscarriage due to all the fights and mental stress I moved to stay with my parents. After tht when my hubby went to his parents place, we came to know from common relatives that there he is spreading nonsense abt me and my parents and also threatening for divorce.
Who can help me better in this regard- women´ s org. or legal counselor? Can I get all these in writing?