Having children from such relationship may be a strong indicator/pointer for relationship being ‘in the nature of marriage’. IT may support contentions of OP to claim compensation/damages from male.IT may also prompt the court to decide the matter placed before court e.g; compensation/damages.
The female in live in relationship may not be able to file for 498a.
The counsel of female in live in relationship may press that you made her believe that you were unmarried. Since you are posting that you have evidences to defend you may be able to refute the allegations.
The evidences that you chose…
…OR female in live in relationship may chose may prompt the court to believe that you have admitted such relationship and complaints against you can be admitted.
The child may not be necessarily born out of; as pointed out by courts ‘Walk in Walk out Relationship’.
If there is NO possibility ( at any time in any matter ) of amicable settlement of issues and otherwise also you may focus on getting clean chit in inquiry and to get acquitted from court of law. Get acquitted and stay away from partener in such relationship. If some (new/more) cases are slapped in near future, get acquitted and stay away…….OR If some (new/more) cases are slapped in near future, you may have a cause to agitate and succeed.
Utilize the time to build irrefutable evidences, to defend your long term interest.
You are expecting relief from courts of law.
In lower court also there are Presiding officers/ Judges that are well read, sharp, properly informed, brilliantly intelligent and vested with powers to decide the matter, and you may realize that ‘career concious’….
The court may frown upon anything and may decide to disregard the façade the pierce the veil.
Courts of law have delivered path breaking, trensetting judgments and have unparralled power.
Your case may succeed or fail or in other words may become another path breaking, trensetting judgment for you or OP.
If you think that you have irrefutable evidences that can establish merits on your side and you are properly informed of legalities, provisons of law, court procedures and can handle the matter on your own; GO ahead.
Or attempt and find out a very able LOCAL counsel specializing in Family/Civil/Criminal matters, to help you.
Preferably proceed further under expert guidance of a very able LOCAL counsel as already suggested so as to mind your long term interest(s).