Dear Experts,
I am Dr Subramanya Upadhyaya, in UK, married in 2008 in India to a civil judge's daughter. She filed a DV complaint in UK in 2008 within 3 months of co-habitation, the UK police did investigate and given a clean chit to me as a result she fleed to India and slapped 498a (alleged criminalities took place in UK with my parents t'phonic instructions to me!! ) against all my family members in 2009. In 2010, my knife filed for divorce on cruelty, desertion and irretrivable break down of marriage whilst asking for IM. I filed RCR the same year. Now the IM is declared Rs, 10,000 per month and I have deposited 4.6 lakhs as arrears already in the court. The RCR and the Divorce have been clubbed for the convenience purpose and 4 times mediation failed so far. The other party, does not want to withdraw the criminal case but demanding divorce with Rs 75,00,000 alimony in the mediation. On the other hand, a criminal petition for the quashal of 498A is in the HC .
Now, my lawyer is saying to me that quashal would not happen and hence will have to face trial as she is a judge's daughter and the laws are biased towards females and to get the justice for a female the court would not quash. At the same time if I ask for a time bound trial, the HC would not approve the same.
My question is would that be true that the HC would not give me time bound trial? and regarding my family members do the allegations against them also would not be quashed as they have not lived with us at all. How can Indain courts trial the alleged crimes happened in UK (jurisdiction) when the police did not take any Central Govt.'s permission at all to investigate (infact they filed the FIR as Final report)
My lawyer is sayingthat even if I get an acquittal in the CC (after the trial) she would get the divorce with a whopping amount of alimony declared as its already 4 years of non co-habitation and its a very good ground for divorce! Then if I have to appeal in the HC, I have to deposit the entire amount of the declared alimony in the future. So, I need to pay and settle the matter out of court.
My question is to get the authenticity of the facts which my lawyer is saying. Does she get the divorce even after my acquittal in 498a (cruelty is not proved) and if I have to appeal do I have to deposit in the HC the entire alimony amount declared?
Please throw some light on this.