Hi, I am 28 yrs old girl from Mumbai and my husband is 31 yrs old. We both work in MNC and we got arrange marriage in May 2010.
After that we spent arround 5 months together and then we lived apart because my husband was out of country for work. We met almost after 1 year when I joined my husband abroad and lived together for 2 and half months.
So in total duration of arround 7 months, my husband was not able to make even once a successful physical relation with me. Initially during first 5 months he used to tell me that it takes some time and practive for newly married couple to do successful intercourse and I belived him.
But this thing created insecured feelings and being cheated feelings in me. I used to take out my frustration by arguing on some other things with him.
2 months after my marriage I told about his disability to my parents and they asked my father in law. Then suggested my husband to consult a doctor and my husband told us that he went to doctor and doctor laughed at him that why u came to me in just two months. His mom told my mom that some ppl take time for it. Its not that smooth for every couple. So we kept some patience. From initial days all his family used to blame me a lot that I do not behave good and I fight a lot and thats why our son is not able to establish physical relations.
After that we were separated because of work and we again met each other after 11 months in Sept 2011. We lived together for 2 and half months and still he could not do intercourse. He attempted 3-4 times but he was failed. Then he started avoiding me and keepng me away from him. He was even avoiding my simple touch and he forcefully send me back to India to my parents house. My In laws called my dad and asked him to take all my belongings from their house.
Meanwhile I went to famous s*xologist from Mumbai and told him all his symptoms and doctor told me that he should undergo medical consultaion and /or tratment based on severity level. But he should come to me once.
I told my husband as well as in laws about my visit to doctor and they gave very caml reaction and just saying ok lets see..we will think etc. Not giving any firm assurance about coming to doctor.
My husband is supposed to come back to India next month but niether he or his parents have kept any contact/communication with me.
1. I am not sure what should I do in this case?
2. Is there any law to force him to go to doctor?
3. Can I file a cheating case against him if he denies to go to doctor ever?
4. If I file divorce case against him, can I ask for any compensation since I am also earning.