I am hindu and married with muslim girl who already had two girls. I am taking care of all the expenses and everything for their well being. Now, we have also got Son. As my wife always listen to my In-laws and they are agree to keep go girls as muslims becoz their father was muslim man and my son to hindu as i am hindu.
Problem is with my wife, she do not agree that he (our son) should be hindu, instead she wants to take my son to her parents palce and to make him muslim., which i do not agree.
I am doing good job with good salary, & my wife and/or my In-laws they are not earning good money and neigher they have their own house. I am educated & have done masters degree and she is not even graduate.
Even though discussing several times, she is not accepting this, infect she threatens me that she will run away with my child to her parents house and i will never get it back or if i will take him with me then she will suicide.
My son is 5 month old. I am stuck in this situation. i am not able to do my job too. I know, once she will run away with my kid, it is not easy to get him back because as per indian law, child custody of tender age always goes to mother.
Now i have following question...
1. Can I get custody of my child based on religion practice (as she is muslim and I am hindu and if she goes to her parents she or her parents will convert him to muslim)
2. If she runs away with my child, then what I should do?
3. Can I file a restraining order for mental torches and blackmailing if I take my kid with me then she will suicide?
4. Is there any way I can save my son from being take him by her?
As I always says to her, that I am ready to stay out of bangalore, away from her family and live our life. But she is not at all willing to go out of bangalore, because she knows if she will go to other city, she will not be able to do anything what she can do in bangalore near to her parents house.
Also,I did marry with her with special marriage act, and I did not converted her to hindu. But since we relocated to bangalore near to her parents place, she got completely changed.
I am not sure how many educated men suffers from such uneducated and unethical people. I am not sure how indian law helps educate father to get his son/daughter.
Pls. advice me on this for further