My brother has got married in dec 2011. Within a month of marriage he found that his wife had a forced marriage which she admitted herself during honeymoon. Her behavior was rude during marriage ceremonies but we couldnot judge that. She had an affair with her colleague and wanted to marry him but her parents forced her to marry in same caste.
My brother was running a bad phase and he lost his job in Feb and is almost out of job for 11 months. Within 2-3 months (apr '12), she renewed discussion with her ex-friend and discussed all homely issue with him, on almost a daily basis. My brother got to know and suggested that this is wrong and she should understand that life do have tough turns and be patient. She has been writing love letters to her friend over email and sending secret messages (that once my bro got access to). She had a habit of writing a diary where she mentioned that she is not happy with marriage and may run away. She used abusive language against my brother and put all took out all her frustrations in that. Before my bro could take a copy, she teared off her diary.
The issue he later discussed with family members on both sides and this time she introduced one of her uncle for mediation. She talked all non-sense regarding my bro behavior and also abused him for not willling to work. The uncle was a lawyer that we came to know later. After negotiation that she admitted to change her behavior and forget the past and gave a written apology to us. But she was more cauitous and was hiding more thngs about her family background. Later we found that she had correspondence degree (lied to us) and she has been absconding in one of the company. Her family have been fighting all the tiems with neighbours and do not have a good rapport. (We could not do any background check)
Now in Aug, she filed a Police Case for all false reasons - Dv, Mental sick and Dowry, did all the abusing late night at our residence. My bro went for mediation and it went well since he wanted to patch up. But, she failed the mediation once he was not able to make up due to medical reasons. Now she is threating for dare consequence and wants to go to court. We are in discussion with IO that its falsified case and she do not want to listen. IO has directed to approach girls' parents for settlement.
Please advise what should we do. My brother got few job offers but later rejected on account of this running issue for last 4 months. He has gone in depression and always remain lonely.