I am having marrige on Feb 2011 and from the day we married to till date I do not get any peace of mind from my wife menatlly or physically. She pretend to be not knowing anything like cooking, how to go for shopping, bank transfers/ withdrawal etc. But when she do something personal for herself she is quite efficient in doing the same.
When I am alone with her in our bedroom she abuses me TU YEH HAI, TU ...........WOH HAI , i even can not touch her for having physical relation with her as she use to scratch me badly and behave like a mentle lady.
She wanted money on monthly basis without telling me any possibe cause of spending the money and usually warned me that if u do not gave me money u have to pay me HARZANA everymonth.
When she is in front of my relatives friends she use to behave in very well manner and shows that I love my husband and talk to be like a respectful wife and very kind hearted women.
She is much more qualified than me (MA, BEd.) and I am 10+2 and usually point these things that i am more qualified. Before marriage I told her clearly that nothing should be like this between us.
She is taking contraceptive pills out of my knowledge and calls of boys use to come on her mobile. When I asked she use to say that these all are nothing but wrong calls. Surpringly all calls are of young boys who use to talk in very rude manner when i called all of them for knowing their location where they live.
I am on job with Rs. 5000/- Salary per month and she is simply a housewife. Can she claim on my father's property if she filed false Dowry case or harrasment case against me. I am not the member of my father's property which father have before our marriage, but we both are living with my father after marriage.
She is now a days not in our home and went out from our home without telling us for how many days with her mother who used bad words for me while taking her daugher on last month of Feb. Still she is in her mother's home.
My brother is living seperately from us but unmarried and sister is married can she sent jail to them also with me and my parents.
We all are afraid if her family members will file false DV or 498a case. My mother is a cancer patient, old grandmother and my father is a diabetic Govt. retired employee.
What should I do plz give me ur valuabable suggestions.