My life is in a complete fuss. I got married in 2009, have a son of 4years.
I am not living with my husband from past 1 year, but he will call every week once to talk to my son.
he has made my life a hell. In 6 years of married life he has never even fulfilled my basic life's requirement. his issue is that, only if I surrender my life to his mother only than he will take care of me.
and his Mother is a devil, who wants me to be a slave at her disposal all the time.
now the same game he is playing with my son, he says directly - that i will not here any compalint against dadi and only if u listen to dadi, i will love u otherwise i will not talk to u. he is playing with little childs emotions also.
I am a qualified Company Secretary. have left my job for getting married to him and surrenderd all my dreams and started my married life in 2009 but since then i am in a hell. from last 1 yr i left him and came to my parents place and started a new life, resumed my job and taking care of my child in fulfledge , including his school fee and everything. my husband has not given me any kind of support. now suddenly after 1 yr he is sending toys for my son every now and then and trying to pamper him saying papa loves u and u have to love dadi and then papa will give u more gifts.
he misbehaves with everyone at my home be it my father or mother and me.
All problem is beacuse of his mother and 2 sisters, who always keep him surrounding and keep telling him negatives in me. his mom at very first time after my marriage said to me, " u better listen to what all i say and act accordingly, otherwise c i am not going to die for another 20 years and i will make your life a hell" and exactly the same thing she is doing.
i and my husband never ever spend any time together, we are not allowed to he will come to bedroom only at time of sleeping and he will sleep. whenever i try to talk to him, he will shout like a dragon and goes away. on all holidays he will take his mother and/or sister either to a relative's place or some other place.
Even if i think of divorce, i feel how will i manage my time and money. now i have to work to earn my and my son's livehood. after so much of break in my job i am facing difficulty in office also to work.along with office i need to give sufficient time to my son also, his expenses also i need to meet, his demands and all.
what shud i do in my life. how shud i go further in my life, so i can give my son a better living and away from all tensions and chaos.
pls help me.