1) To oppose bail, u need no funds,
2) Why should u tell the court to grant the bail to ur husband or in-laws or both? This is against ur interest in future also.
3) U hv to strongly oppose the bail. It will be opposed by PP. If u get an opportunity, explain to PP or the court ur sufferings and prevent getting AB so that they will look to u.
4) If u hv to file DV and 498 A cases, then ur telling no objection to granting AB will have no sense rather ur husband will use the same stick against u and hit back.