i am hindu and got married in jan 2008 my wife left me and went to her my in laws place in sep 2008 for delivery of my child from the time she married she was always looking to seprate me from my parents.we had lots of heated arguments till november 2008 i was visting her but after one fight she told me not to come and see her and see has also thretended of comitting sucide more then thrice. so i thought she would change as time goes by but the communication between both of us stopped in november 08 itself.my son was born in january 09 and i was informed by her father after 20 mns of his birth through phone.My family went and saw the kid and
I was with her daily in the hospital and I was never informed the discharge date & time
I helped them to discharge and dropped the bags in her home. She told me not to stay in her house and can stay for an hour only if I want to see the kid maximum
After this I was going and seeing my child regularly but I was treated very badly by her & her parents. I was waiting for things to improve but that never happened…every time I went there she will be taking the child in the pretext of feeding and lock the door in one instance I waited for 1.30 hr and then only I was able to see my child for few seconds
The last time I visited was in April 2009 and she dint even show the kid for seconds…
I am hurt @ her behavior & her parents behavior…and in June 09 My mother called her father and asked him when are they going to send her bak with the kid and he said
still they have not decided on that, there is no security for her there and she is afraid to come there and he was giving all false allegation and also thretended of dowary harrasement case and then she called one of the relatives in july 09 to there home and explained the situation he is good person who wants both the families to unite but she was adament that i need to come out of my house and live with her near her parents place at the end it did not go anywhere and i tried callinh her now on october 09 since november08 she has not spoken to me so i did not get any response now also i tried sending sms and finally i got an answer from her fathers mobile stating that she is not intrested in talking to me and and whatever I have to say has to be sent to him in writting so i sent him asking if she is interested in living with me as husband & wife and this was sent 9 days back and there is no response from her end even after sending repeated reminders but i was able to talk to her brother and he says she was only speaking about the past and is not going to reply to my question.
In this state what should i do?how can i get back her with my son?if i go leaglly what are the options i have and if i go ahead and do it what will be the reaction from there side?If i go ahead and file child visiting rights & RCR can this proceed to divorce or reunite?What is the sucees rate of RCR inreuniting?
pls ans the above questions as i am confused on what step to take