I am married for 12 years. In these 12 years my wife and me had lot of fights which started within few days after marriage.
We had a kid after 3 years of marriage at our in laws place. When my son was 6 months I took them to my home. Frequent fights continued and 1 day it reached such a level that I had to leave home. I had to stay back in hotel for few days as my wife became very ferocious and violent during that time. In my absence, my in-laws came to my house and took my wife along with all my household belongings (like TV, computer and cot etc.) with them, leaving me in the middle of nothing.
After few months, we consulted and I took her back to my house (after buying all the household items again), but after few days again she started fighting. 1 year went like this, and during this time she constantly pelted me with many false allegations and questioned my character for no reason. Again after one such extreme fight, I had leave home as she became violent again and this time she lodged many false allegations against me in Mahila Thana. After that she went to her parent's house along with all my household items.
Finally I filed divorce case and we started living separately. We were living separately for the last 5 years and cases against me continued during this period. But at the end of 5 years , she started calling me and convinced me that she has changed and her anger has also come down. Then one day I was called for case order of 498 (which she lodged against me falsely) and had to meet her. She insisted me to take her along with me otherwise she will not allow me to see my son.
For my son's good future, I agreed and I took her along with me and she also took back all cases against me.
It's been 1.5 year since she is back, and we settled down after buying new household items once again. For first few weeks she behaved nicely, but after that she again started fighting and her behaviour worsened quickly. Even neighbours were also not happy with her behaviour. Again I had to leave home after one extreme fight.
Now she again took with her all our household items and vacated the house. Also she has lodged again many false cases against me in Mahila Thana.
This is 3rd time she took all the household items while leaving me no option but to stay in hotel.I am feeling very helpless, tensed and being a heart patient don't want to bear this mental, social and financial harassment anymore.
I want to be legally separated immediately, and want to file for divorce case. Also I want to sue her for all the false allegation, mental and physical harassment and financial damages that I incurred unnecessarily due to her bad and illicit behaviour.
Can you please suggest how should I proceed legally.
What are the steps I should take now?