MY sister got married 2 years ago with an IIT IIM grad, my sister is also an Engg. Grad. From day 1 of marriage she got tortured from her family , like
1. You need to was my clothes, as i am your husband
2.I can't eat the food after 9 PM ,
3. Her father in law always calls her at ny time and conveys that she should give the breakfast to his son by 8 am in the morning other wise this will affect his mind.
4. When my sister and husband went to buy household items , she was told that her father didnot give hime anything but my father gave them 25 lacs including expenss and a car worth of rs 8 lacs.
5. She need to come to him on bed on his own as she has to fulfill her duties as a married women,
6. she also works somewhere , her hsband always convey that she has to give all month salary in his hand , and then he will pay him
7. he told her i got tired if i travel by office cab , yo can travel in metro and go to office ,and then cook home food also.
8. Daily in the society where they live , they got RO water so whether she filled the water or not ,husbad used to check the temperature of water and find out whether water got filled or not.
9. there they live in 3 BHk flat, father in law and husband always used to torture that this flat is small .size of flat is 1700sqft.
tthere are things like this that she heard daily
what do yo think advocates this is good for her or this is normal behavior of the husband's nowadays. I am not sure what needs to be done so asking you.