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Velamuri Sai Sri Ram   18 July 2019

Suicide blackmails by ex-girlfriend

I was once in a relationship with a girl i loved very much. But due to some trust issues we broke up. There was fault from both the sides but the reason she thinks i broke up is something i wouldn't accept. From then on she started blackmailing me of suicide. This blackmailing increased more when a girl of other section committed suicide and unfortunately passed away. From then she started blackmailing me even more and mentally harrassing me.
What can i do?? As of now I don't want any legal action against her as i don't want anyone's life to be spoiled.

I have proof her blackmailing me. I need advice what should i do and let's just say she does attempt , what will happen to me. And i also want to know what can i do beforehand like getting sign from her parents that i would not be responsible for anything.
I will explain my whole story in detail in e-mail if required.
Thanks for your help.


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karnish gupta   18 July 2019

this is matter of law and conscience you have to handle something like this carefully and try not to take aggressive approach towards her as she may be in a mental state not to understand all you can do is try to be reasonable with her and if possible sit with her and explain everything in the presence of your and her family even if you have to apologize to her for your mistakes if any and be very calm before this approach her family and try to tell them everything peacefully through someone who is respectable in your community so that things dont take a harsh turn and if required and after due diligence show the family the profs that you got but try things to work out without showing these proofs as things may get worse for her at home if you approach family with proofs initially and if this does not work try to establish your defences as how you broke up and how much time had passed and the approach local police authorities with a complaint of black mail and possible suicide threats and from there onwards always say you won't be responsible for anything she does as the decision was mutual back when you broke up and now you have nothing to do with her situation what so ever plus if you can send her to doctor for treatment for this and to make her understand calmly by trying to cope her up with the grief of loss ... as it is she grieves you a lot and somewhere thinks it's her fault try to cope her up with the help of families and respectable in family
also consult with a legal professional with all the facts and circumstances before doing anything further now as per the limit of the question I could only advice as much but if i am given more facts i may advice different approach so be careful try to keep her safe and sound and ask her family to love her as much as they can she may get over with your grief

Velamuri Sai Sri Ram   18 July 2019

i explained her everything very clearly. i explained why i broke up with her and everytime i do she blackmails me again and again, so now i told that if this continues i have to take action from my part(i.e talking to her parents) but i haven't told her what the action would be.

Velamuri Sai Sri Ram   18 July 2019

there was never a s*xual relationship between us and i made it clear to her on multiple occasions that we do not have a future together. i have all the proof. even if i made it clear long back that there is no future for us she doesn't accept the answer and threatens me

Velamuri Sai Sri Ram   18 July 2019

it's been more than 8 months since she started all of this. so does that mean i am safe

Velamuri Sai Sri Ram   18 July 2019

thank you sir for taking your time

Munna kumar   18 July 2019

sir i m feeling same condition how i have to do

laxmi kant joshi (instructor)     19 July 2019

Don't worry nothing will happen to you ,she is harassing you , I suggest you don't reply to him any more otherwise she will gather all your reply as an evidence which proves that you had done wrong with her , be calm and do care in your work and be happy , if she send any threat messages to you by emails or sms save them they are a big proof of her torture and blackmailing , stop talking with her either on phone , whatsapp email and other means of communication also don't talk to her family members if you will do so they will harass you more , if the things become out of control or limit then file a police complaint stating everything and exhibit the emails and sms as a proof of your innocent .

laxmi kant joshi (instructor)     20 July 2019

Om prakash , behave properly the original querist also don't need your useless suggestions , stop giving them

laxmi kant joshi (instructor)     22 July 2019

Omprakash what you think is this your fathers property nonsense first learn how to behave no one here need your suggestions , people know more than you What you are saying to original querist go and speak with girls parents and with her too to clearify his side why he had left her , mr bl**dy omprakash do you think him a fool he visit to everyone and give them explanation and dragged himself in a mess , nonsense why he do so he himself admit his fault and raise the witnesses against him . You post only your, don't quote anyone by their name

niranjan   24 July 2019

1. You need to file a police complaint. Its the reference for future. 2. Get the lawyer help to file police complaint.

Pawan S (Advocate)     26 July 2019

Based in your version of the story, i can say, No need to fear if you have not done anything wrong. 

No valuable views can be expressed based on the probable guesses.

FAIR LEAGUES   26 January 2020

I have a query. there was a girl who was friend of mine. we have casual realtion in starting. all relationship. she had many affairs and s*xual with many more. we don't stop each other . once we had a casual party of drinks and drugs. she took first time. but after that she took drugs her self and blame me. when I realized it's bad I try hard to help her to come out she blackmail me for all. she buy drinks drugs take them and blackmail me. she knows I m married and baby's. she was my nebhiour. she knows all. now she claim that she want to be wife. I can not I said . but now she make bad shows near home and. blackmail me. what to do. she is also married . now she is in divorce process. she had put same alligation on several people also.

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