really pinfull , after all life is emptyness.....
i am also software engineer from very middle class family. when i started earning good salary i had same dream for marriage. my parents are 70+ and i am staying away from them. i m only son of my parents.
i thought let me stay alone for some years so that i can save enough money and can have good home so that after marriage we will stay togather at the place where i was working.
i had lot of dream to give happyness to my parents and stay to gather during their old age.
i married and just after 1 month i realised that my wife and in-laws are only interested in my money and want to seperate myself from my parents, they did demand money and threaten my parents also. and i was shoked and feel that my dream and future are distroy and feel why i marry. but i decided not to give up and learn lession to wife and inlaws.
After 1 year of marriage i have to go to abroad and during that time my wife ask money. i firmly denied and suddenly cut all my contacts with her. this time i decided to stop this relation at any cost...
Earlier my parents were imotional about my marriage/social life and also about my carrier as after lot of hard working and struggle of my parents i reach at this position. so they were ready to stay away from me and my wife i know that it was very pinful for them but for my marriage life and because i can enjoy my carrier and merriage life they intentionally stay away and avoid to call me ( before marriage they used to call me daily.)
Everybody in sociaty , frient , relatives were praise my carrier and marriage life. but i was not happy , i had good salary , good social status , but decided not to go ahead on this path and stop all kind of relation to my wife.
Finally they filed false/fabricated DV case on me and my parents. It was very painful as in society everybody was advising me to compromise and also law are very bias which can distroy my carrier but we were firm.
As i am abroad my parents regularly attend court but i never appear in court since from last 1.5 years. now my position in DV case is strong.
but my lawyer advice me not to come india till it finish.
Now i daily contact to my parents ,
everybody in my relatives and society blaiming me and telling i m mad to give up such a good marriage life.
but i feel very happy and satisfied , don't know why.... i know i lost everything
( my marriage life , social status , relatives respect ) which i could have continue if i keep mum and didn't firmly stop this relation.
till today i am facing and fighting DV case...
when i had everything i was feeling empty and when i gave up this i feel satisfied.
i don't know what is my future but in present i am happy...