this is the first time I posted my issue in blogs. So, I have provided my problem partially. Now, I'll explain the details clearly. Then you can say whether I'm a good wife or bad wife.
After my marriage, we came to Mumbai. I asked for the new sim card. He replied that I will give you. I was waiting for new sim card. I waited upto 2 months. I was going to office without mobile. My parents and all other relatives are asking for my mobile. That too, in the month of July, bomb blast was happened in mumbai. So, my parents are so tense about me, because I'm new to Mumbai. Oneday, my manager aked my mobile number and other details to update in company portal. Then, I asked my husband for sim card. Can you guess what he repled? He replied as " I'm testing your patience, that's I didn't give you the sim card.' See his mentality. Finally, I got the sim card aftte 2 months.
Oneday, He asked my bank internet password. I trusted him and provided all the details. He download all the previous statement from past 5 years. And he took my debit cards and withdrawing the full amount.For rent house deposit also I paid 1 lakh. For bus charges also, I need to ask him. He used to give Rs.200 for my expenses. After completion of that money I need to ask again. He hacked my mail id also.
My mother-in-law, she used to call me and asking for property. So, my parents registered the property also with my name and my husband name.
One fine day, he ask me to pack the luggage to go my native. I asked him, why did you plan suddenly. He replied that "You will get know, after going there". So, we went to my mother-in-law's place. He called to my parents and saying that, I don't want your daugter, her character is not good.She will smoke and drink. She is not suitable to my family. So, I don't want her.....like that he has created so manythings aginst me. He and his parents forced me to leave that house. So, I was staying with my parents. After that, my parents and my uncle's went to his place and asking for compromise. They said that, they don't want to take me back. And we have waited for one more month. Eventhough, we got the same answer. And finally, he sent a lawyer notice for diverse. Then, we decided to file a case. So we filed a case.
In police station also, he was saying the samething and I'm asking for to live with him. After 2 days, police has given a counselling to us and he compromised and taken me back in the month of February. After that, we are living happily. But, there is no communication between my family and his family.
After 3 months, our wedding anniversary was going to come. So, he planned to go Shimla. we both got leave for one week. On Friday, we started from Mumbai. When we got into train, they started the drama.
His father called him and saying that your uncle is not well. He replied that, take him to hospital. Then, after 1 hr, his sister called and talking about the same. For the next next, after reaching to shimla, he got a call from his father and saying that you need start immediately. So, we started immediately and we went directly to Hyderabad. From Hyderabad, we took one car to go to my native. When we reach Guntur, he called to his father and asking for the hospital route. Immediately he said that, doctors were recommended to go Appollo hospital, we are almost reaching to hyderabad, so you can come to hyderabad. Then my husband told me that, continuously we are in journey so, from here you can go to your Mom's place and I will go to hyderbad. I said OK. From the next day onwards, he is not attending my Call. I called so many times. After 3 days he lifted my call and saying that if you withdraw the case then only I'll take you back. Otherwise, we are not going to stay together. To take back to my home, he played such a drama. Plannedly, he took the mumbai house keys also from handbag. Now, I'm staying with my friends to go office.
Now, I'm not in possition to take decision and to do anything. I don't know what I have to do now. I paid the house deposit and I used to pay the rent also, eventhough, I'm staying in friends house. It is not a problem to remove the case. But, on what basis I can remove the case? Does he loves me? till now I didn't find love from my husband. If he has a love, he cannot played that drama on wedding anniversary. I bought 12 gifts for him. But, gone everything..... Just because of God fearing girl, I'm waiting for his love. I don't want to loose my husband and my family. For this reason, I'm looking out for help to go further step. Please suggest me if you have any idea.