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gforce (Will update it later)     07 August 2014

Need advice regarding divorce case/fake 498a

Hi all - I am the brother of distressed man who is suffering from getting married to a fraud girl and her family. My brother is a Muslim and girl was a Hindu and they met thru common friends. they started liking each other and she converted to Muslim religion but she and her family insisted that we perform a fake Hindu marriage ceremony for their own relatives/friends....we performed this only for sake of my brother and his to be wife. This ceremony was done after she has converrted to Muslim. Then we performed traditional nikah so solemnize marriage between my brother and the girl. After this marriage, girl's mother immediately started pressurizing girl to leave stating she is not happy with marriage and does not like muslim. She threatened and abused all of us as well as her own daughter. Girl also started siding with her family and started completely neglecting household duties and started harrassing and taunting husband and entire inlaws. After a lot of big arguments, girl walked out of marital home. Then we sent talaq divorce notice to girl to which she responded thru lawyer saying hindu marriage is legal and muslim marriage was not legal and she has been hindu always. Then she filed false dowry complaint against entire family and also my own wife who has nothing to do with her...and also rape complaint against my brother. We filed AB appeal and after inquiry, police submitted report that it is martial discord case and transferred to CAW so our lawyer then dropped AB appeal.

In this time we have filed case in family court to declare muslim marriage as true so that divorce in muslim way can be true. But girl pushed hard in caw cell and now we are receiving summon to appear there and explain everything again and again.

Can anybody advise what to do...can we file criminal case against her or her family? How to deal with caw cell? can they cause more headache. please advice as we are getting torture every day by dealing with this headache. thank u.



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(Guest)

Hi all - I am the brother of distressed man who is suffering from getting married to a fraud girl and her family. My brother is a Muslim and girl was a Hindu and they met thru common friends. they started liking each other and she converted to Muslim religion but she and her family insisted that we perform a fake Hindu marriage ceremony for their own relatives/friends....we performed this only for sake of my brother and his to be wife.

 Opinion: Does marriage was performed after her severance/cease of hindu?


This ceremony was done after she has converrted to Muslim.

 

Opinion: Not clear. Plz answer the above question?

 

Then we performed traditional nikah so solemnize marriage between my brother and the girl.

 

Opinion: Same as above?

 

After this marriage, girl's mother immediately started pressurizing girl to leave stating she is not happy with marriage and does not like muslim. She threatened and abused all of us as well as her own daughter. Girl also started siding with her family and started completely neglecting household duties and started harrassing and taunting husband and entire inlaws. After a lot of big arguments, girl walked out of marital home.

Opinion: Do you have all proofs of the said allegations?

 

Then we sent talaq divorce notice to girl to which she responded thru lawyer saying hindu marriage is legal and muslim marriage was not legal and she has been hindu always.

 

Opinion: The marriage which was solemnized first by convergence of religion from either side will come into enforcement.

Do your brothers marriage is registered and under which act?

Your brother's case was best suited for Special Marriage Act but they have missed out.

 

 

Then she filed false dowry complaint against entire family and also my own wife who has nothing to do with her...and also rape complaint against my brother.

 

Opinion: Rape case is not maintainable here as your brother is her husband and SC has rulllngs over this issue as husband can't be called for rape of a wife.

 

 

We filed AB appeal and after inquiry, police submitted report that it is martial discord case and transferred to CAW so our lawyer then dropped AB appeal.

 

Opinion: go through the link and read the following:

https://everysuffererisasaviour.blogspot.in/search/label/8%20Points%20for%20Husbands%20to%20Deal%20Mediation%20%40%20Caw%20Cell%20%28Mahila%20Thana%29

 

In this time we have filed case in family court to declare muslim marriage as true so that divorce in muslim way can be true.

Opinion: Through which sec. and what is the current status?

 

But girl pushed hard in caw cell and now we are receiving summon to appear there and explain everything again and again.

 

Opinion: Read the article on caw cell,link mentioned as above.

 

Can anybody advise what to do...can we file criminal case against her or her family? How to deal with caw cell? can they cause more headache. please advice as we are getting torture every day by dealing with this headache. thank u.

 

Opinion: Don't get panic. If FIR been registered then secure AB first ,If FIR not registered then atleast go for a Notice Bail. Talk to you lawyer on this issue. Nothing strange in your case as every 1 out of four houses in India are in danger of false cases from wife or they are in marital discord.

 

 

ESIS

 

 

gforce (Will update it later)     07 August 2014

Hi thanks for your quick response. This forum gives lot of strength to suffering families.

Conversion was done before the hindu ceremony...so first was her conversion, then hindu ceremony and then official nikah.

We have proof of some of the bad things said by girl and her parents but not all proof..we have video proof of some of the arguments.

Marriage was due to be registered this month but everything ended before we got chance to register the muslim marriage.

Not sure what you mean by what section? In family court? We filed under family court act.

Reason why we finally decided on the conversion rather than special marriage is because of issues for children that can come in special marriage. We have one case in family where wife/husband are unhappy because of special marriage which is affecting their children. That is why all elders decided that conversion was the best option to which girl and her parents also agreed. Girls father and mother have signed conversion document too so it was very surprising that girl is saying that she is hindu all along.

One or two more questions - 

1. Can caw cell file criminal case against us? Caw cell got the case only after local police station submitted their report that it is case of matrimonial discord and decided not to pursue rape and dowry allegations she had filed in the police station. I thought caw cell will only call my brother for counselling or mediation?

2. Can we initiate criminal action from our side? as per advice above, rape complaint does not stand in their marriage as they were husband and wife so it is clear cut case of false criminal complaint from their side so does this allow us to file our own complaint? Also what about dowry complaint? Can we file another complaint in police station that her entire complaint is baseless/

Thanks.

gforce (Will update it later)     11 August 2014

Can anybody please check my queries above and respond? Thanks very much!


(Guest)

Hi thanks for your quick response. This forum gives lot of strength to suffering families.

Conversion was done before the hindu ceremony...so first was her conversion, then hindu ceremony and then official nikah.

 

Opinion: @ author, again you have not specified whether that marriage performed as Nikah before hindu ceremony?

If Nikah was done prior to hindu ceremony or hindu marriage then only your brothers marriage will be treated as under muslim marriage.And that too when she had ritually and willingly accepted the islam.

 

We have proof of some of the bad things said by girl and her parents but not all proof..we have video proof of some of the arguments.

 

Opinion: Keep it safe and original for evidence stage,if any suit falls against your brother.

 

Marriage was due to be registered this month but everything ended before we got chance to register the muslim marriage.

 

Opinion: Now,let the court decide whether your brother's marriage comes under muslim or Hindu.

 

 

Not sure what you mean by what section? In family court? We filed under family court act.

 

Opinion: There is no such fixed section under family court or any marriage act to decide that "which marriage is valid. It is only the due course of courts procedure when it will be known as your brother's marriage is valid under muslim law or not, when any suit is filled under any said act.


By the way, which sub religion you are under muslim---Shia or Sunni?

Both have contrasting way of nikah,so judge yourself as your brother's marriage is valid according to your customs and practices?There are lots of legal terminology is established like dower/Mehar, sahi marriage, iddat and quboolnama etc etc.

Do all have been performed ?

 

Reason why we finally decided on the conversion rather than special marriage is because of issues for children that can come in special marriage. We have one case in family where wife/husband are unhappy because of special marriage which is affecting their children.

 

Opinion: It's nothing like that "The SMA 1954" is made in accordance of dealing such situations only. This marriage act gives equal and unrestricted rights to follow one's religion. And it's the wish of the parents to teach in what sense to their children.

 

That is why all elders decided that conversion was the best option to which girl and her parents also agreed. Girls father and mother have signed conversion document too so it was very surprising that girl is saying that she is hindu all along.

 

Opinion: your brother has made a complicated marriage,by avoiding special marriage act. In my view the later act was most preferable in your case.

 

 

One or two more questions - 

1. Can caw cell file criminal case against us? Caw cell got the case only after local police station submitted their report that it is case of matrimonial discord and decided not to pursue rape and dowry allegations she had filed in the police station. I thought caw cell will only call my brother for counselling or mediation?

 

Opinion: Yes. If mediation fails and the first party pays bribes to them.

Yes. Caw cell is not authorized to give decisions it can only act on mere FIR or an NC complaint and is only made to conduct mediations to sort out the marital issues.

I have already posted the link about the functions and powers of CAW cell AS ABOVE.

 

 

2. Can we initiate criminal action from our side? as per advice above, rape complaint does not stand in their marriage as they were husband and wife so it is clear cut case of false criminal complaint from their side so does this allow us to file our own complaint? Also what about dowry complaint? Can we file another complaint in police station that her entire complaint is baseless/

 

Opinion: Without any procedure and adjudication or any judgement,how can you go for telling that case is false. Once the case comes on evidence stage then only one can go for filling perjury and fraud on oaths cases.

My suggestion:- Just wait and watch, keep patience, consult a seasoned lawyer of your jurisdiction and have a clean discussion thoroughly on all issues.

Thanks.

gforce (Will update it later)     11 August 2014

Thanks for your response. Marriage was first done according to hindu rites but it does not stand legally as both bride and groom were muslim at that point. Then we did nikah a few days after the hindu ceremony.

My brother met with CAW cell officer yesterday and explained all the facts and showed them the evidence against the girl and her family. Officer then said it is clear that both parties cannot live with each other so she gave my brother a list of items girl has asked for (very long fake list of items) and asked my brother to come again in two days with the admit list. Two questions at this point:

1. Officer said when we give the admit list and if girl accepts it, then we need to bring her items to CAW cell at our own cost??? She brought things like bed, almirah on her own so can we refuse to bring things at our own cost or ask for reimbursement?

2. My brother is concerned girl will run away or go into hiding after receiving all her documents and clothes. Can we tell CAW that we will submit her items thru family court as there is a risk she might run away.

3. CAW officer herself told my brother he is clean guy and things like dowry, rape etc mentioned by girl in her complaint never came up. Can my brother ask CAW cell to close down the case if we return the items and submit their report.

Really thankful to everyone for their replies.


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