Family Courts Act provides for a 30-day deadline.
Hindu Marriage Act provides for a 90-day deadline.
These are known aspects of law. Please formally visit the family court and speak to the judicial officer there and then meet 2-3 LADY ADVOCATES and gain more insight.
Adoption, state specific laws exist. So meet 2-3 lady advocates and gain more insight.
High court has powers in both these matters.
BUT, IF THEY HATE YOU SO MUCH JUST FORGET THEM.
IT IS BETTER TO LIVE AS A SINGLE WOMAN, BY YOURSELF AND LET YOUR HUSBAND PURSUE HIS PATH IF THERE IS NOTHING BUT HATRED FOR YOU.
LIVE BY YOURSELF WITH YOUR SELF-RESPECT INTACT.
BUT IF YOUR INNER VOICE KEEPS TELLING YOU EVERYDAY TO UNITE WITH YOUR HUSBAND, GO AHEAD.
EVEN THE GODS IN HEAVEN, IT IS SAID, STAY AWAY FROM A DETERMINED WOMAN AND DO NOT CROSS HER PATH IN CAUSES THAT ARE RIGHTEOUS.
IT ALL DEPENDS ON YOUR INNER VOICE AND NOT ON YOUR ADVOCATE/FAMILY/FRIENDS,...etc
TAKE TIME TO DECIDE but once you decide, STICK TO YOUR DECISION.