I have been married to my wife for the last 5 years and we have a baby boy who is 16 months old. There's been quite a bit of friction between us from the beginning and now after undergoing a series of counseling sessions, we have decided to get separated. We have been living separately for the last 2 months now. So as the husband, I have a few queries related to this:
1. If we move legally to dissolve the marriage (mutual divorce - hopefully), what kind of financial burden would be on me? Me and wife are both software engineers who studied in the same colleges and earn almost similar salaries (her company provides more benefits than mine)
2. With respect to the child, generally what would be the frequency of visits I can make to spend time with the child?
3. What if false accusations are made against me? like infidelity, impotent, etc. Will the counselors' remarks help in these? Almost all the counselors pointed out attitude and anger management issues with my wife.
4. The only financial debt I have with her is related to buying a car; we contributed equally there and I m ready to settle it. Would there be any surprises here? like do I need to pay her the interest for her contribution?