Hi I live in chennai, i got married in 2007 and it was a love marriage, i loved the guy for 6 years before marriage, we did a register mariage in 2007, from day one, he was not able to perform, he blamed some treatment that he took before marriage and said it might be temperory and can be cured, after waiting for 3 years, i lost my patience and took him to a doctor in 2009 the doctor said its a errection problem and gave me a detailed report of 40 pages about his issue, i have this report handy with me now. He has problem with errection and never was able to perform, i didnt want to tell my parent and hurt them so i never told them, i was illtreated by the guys mother saying that i was impotent and infertile to give birth to a baby, i accepted all the cruelity from her and her all relatives insulted me saying that i was a impotent in the public functions and after few days i stopped going to fuctions. there after we continuosuly visited other doctors and everybody said it was curable and i have to co-operate and i co-operated and did all that i could do from my end for last 6+ years and nothing worked out till date, i finally decided to say this to my family and told them, i was surprised to see my family reaction, they despite of protecting me and supporting me, they supported the guy and took him to treatment for one month. lately he started doubting me and he beat me many times when we were alone and threatened in even in front of my parents, even after seeing all these my parent still insisted me to live with him fearing the society they live in. finally Very frustrated after fighting with my parents and the guy and quit the relationship myself and came out with the help of my friends and applied for a divorce just recently in april, but the guy is threatening me saying that he will sue me of illegal relationships with my friends who helped me get out of him and drag me to the criminal court and prolong this as long as he can, so as i have no life or option other than to go and live with him again.
The questions i have is
The medical report given by the doctor at the end of every page says not for legal use, does that mean i cant prove him impotent?
We never had a course atleast once in 7 years and so never a had a child, can this be a ground to get separated if the medical records cant be used against him?