I got married this year in April , I stayed at my in-laws home for 4 days for all the functions and ceremonies. Since 28 April, I am staying with my parents in Mumbai and my In laws stay in Delhi.
This was a mutual decision as nobody wanted me to leave the job and stay with my husband. Before marriage only my husband had said that he wont b able to bear my expenses so if I leave my job I would have to stay in a town with my In laws but my in laws wanted a working girl so they asked me to take a transfer and come to delhi. As I am a employee of a private firm, transfer is not easy which was also discussed. I am staying with my parents and working in Mumbai. I earn more than him so he cited ego problems though I never mentioned this to him. Relations with my husband started becoming sour as many confusions and misunderstandings started to happen. After many attempts to resolve this, things are becoming worse. I don’t feel to take this relation forward as I am deeply hurt by everyone including my family. My husband involved his family to sort out the issue but he himself is not taking any efforts.This marriage was not consummated as I was sick at that time. I needed time so my husband and his family started making allegations and remarks on my character. Before marriage only I had told him everthing about myself. I never has any relation still he doubts me, he himself had girlfriend to whom his parents dint approve of. To prevent the things to become more worse and avoid the remarks we stopped talking since July.
Now, his family is pressuring me and my family on the name of society and in turn my family accuses me of not being capable of handling relations properly though I dint do anything bad. I don’t feel safe and be a dependent on him and his family. What should I do ?
Is there any clause for such mental harassment ? I had contacted a counsellor too. She agreed with me for all the bad things I am going through. I don’t want alimony or any settlement. I just want mental peace. I am 27 years old and single till I got married so I believe I can stay happy as single all my life.