Dear Sir / Madam,
I am a Hindu, married to a Hindu lady in the last year and half. I will write it from the beginning so to make it easy to understand my situation. (I lost my job after 15 days of my marriage).
1. Her Mother expressed her desire to give us divorce on the third day of our marriage. 2. She asked my mother to give us after 2 months of our marriage. 3. She told to everyone in her relatives that she is going to give us divorce after 8 months of our marrriage I am quarrelling with my wife because I dont want her mother to come to my house. But after one year one day she got hurted and left from my house. 4. Then her relatives told us that my Mother In Law want to give us divorce but they stopped her from doing it by seperating us for a period of time as she is unable to do her job because of the quarrels and also I can find a job by forgetting all the things.
5.. 10 days after our seperation her parents again called us asking for a divorce. 6. I asked my wife about it and she replied me that it was she who asked for divorce. 7. I tried to convince her in all the possible means but she insulted me and my family through her mails. 8. She replied me that she will come if I go and convince her parents after getting a job. (After hearing the word divorce from them how will I go and ask them I should have some self respect. but she wants me to kneel infront of their family by leaving my entire family.) 9. I mailed my wife two months ago to ask her mother to speak to my father as she did all this. 10. But my wife is still blaming me that I was the cause for all this and I must ask for her infront of her mother.
Ofcourse this appears simple cause to take a divorce but it is linked with humiliation from her mother to me and my entire family. She even told to everyone in our hometown about this divorce so my parents left that place where they were residing since 4 years. My friends are asking me about this. My house owner where we live currently also knew that I was left alone. This cost me my reputation. Even my parents asked through their relatives but they told that my MIL is not coming down at any cost. (that means my parents have to go and beg her for her daughter).
If my wife loves me why is she living away from me. She could have already came. And after these many days of seperation and reading her mails again and again I got a kind of hatred upon my own life. I dont want to live with her anymore.
What if she files a case against us on the acts of domestic violence, asking lump some amount of dowry (I never did beaten her in this entire time even I hitted my forehead to the wall, we took dowry but that was as a land registered on her name but not a single penny we took from them as a dowry).
Can she file any case against us as she was seperated from me for 4 months on her own willingness. This was written in one of her mails.
Can I apply for a divorce on the grounds of, as she was away from me from 4 months, humiliation from her mother, mails that were against me and my family members. She asked for divorce (also from her mail).
Thank you very much for your support in helping me solve this problem.
I lost my sleep, hunger, life, health in this 4 months of time. So please help me to avoid her and start a new life.