Why you want money from him as settlement. That is why supreme court called 498 a, as "legal terrorism" .
If you do not want to stay with him, go ahead. As you have proof that he is using bad words, go ahead and take divorce because, relation has been in the state of using "bad words".
Law won't force you to stay with him. Even he or you filed RCR (conjugal rights).
As you are earning good enough, you won't get even any alimony.
You want to take revenge on him and his family. Is laws made for that? is this not extortion?
definitely this is false 498a case, at least in case of his parents.
Parents afraid "to get software groom/bride to their home". Do not let them go for generalization.
You have protection from law for your rights. But not for all.
coming to general thinking, see who did mistake either wrong or mistake.
1) You didn't stand on your words, at least not ready to ask for excuse.
2) you have given money to others. Of course your parents. You 2 people could have discussed and given to them. family responsibility is on both of you. But you are saying, that is my money. I can do what ever I want.
Can he say that "I have my own external affairs"? No right?
He is discussing every problem with you and asking your help. Now you are highlighting it (telugulo deppi podavadam antaaru).
3) Parents responsibility is on both of you for basic needs. Don't know who require 7 lakhs as basic needs.
4) Parents also should help you to not spoil relation ship. if they are not doing it, then they are definitely not good parents.
Do not try to enjoy it.
This is for both of you.
konchem prasanthanga aalochinchandi. If you did mistake, asking for excuse is very good. Please do not go for too much damage to your relation and do not loose the opportunity to ask excuse. even this is also for both of you.
Ego vadhu ani prapanchaaniki cheppina vaallamu. maname aa durvyasana paalu kaavodhu. do not let ego spoil you. It applies to all. Even in your software projects also. Let him know his mistakes.
5) It seems you are still hiding many to get biased verdict. you can't do this in courts.
You are saying, he scolded you. But what made your lover to do it. Might be one have hidden something from him or escaped when required. This is nothing but cheating. Means troubled him in any manner intentionally or preplanned. This will charge for 7 years.
He is keeping all aside and asking to stay with him.
Might be he has scolded you, can you prove that you have not scolded him for the sake of defence lawyer.
Can you tell why he is scolding you and your parents when defence lawyer or judge asked you?
Again you have to frame one more fake story. One more fake to cover previous. your journey will end like this.
If you not, only kid of your parent then you cannot justify to court saying I am helping to my parents.
I do not think, you will get 30 lakhs from law suit.
Please think who is spoiling your life by giving or supporting with bad ideas. that may be friends, parents, lawyers or people like us. They will laugh behind you. All will enjoy with your money. At last you won't get any.
Please do not spoil your life, accept your mistakes. This is very good quality of humans.
Ego ego ego, very bad attitude. please avoid it. Please be relax.