dear members and experts
i and my husband filed mutual divorce petition on out of court settlement that he wont return the dowry amount and my earnings which he kept forcefully( the amount runs into lakhs) and that i can keep child 4 year old son with me. i am planning to go to uk where my brother resides. after knowing this he withdrew his consent from mutual divorce. i have following queries
1. if i go for contested divorce how much time does it consume? i have heard it is around 2 years. it might drag more bcoz he wants to drag the case so that i cannot move abroad.
2. he is asking me to give in written that if i move abroad or if i remarry the child's custody will be tranferred to him. what if i write it now take a divorce and move abroad after informing court that nobody can control my life after divorce and it is illegal to barr somebody to move abroad and remarry.
i have lost everything 10 years of my life , my earnings and mental peace . and now he wants child also. i do not want to file a contested divorce because it will reflect on my son because that would create a tense atmosphere in my home.
kindly help me in this regard. thanx.