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My wife left home on 9th Oct, 2010 after a quarrel on petty issue without informing me while I was in office. She called her brother and left. She took away all her belongings with her except "Magalsutra". On the evening of 8th Oct, 2010 she had undergone HSG test for infertility as suggested by doctor, we were visiting since last two years. so Magalsutra was given to me by lab technician.
That time my father who is a paralyzed patient was at home, she even not feels to ask or tell him.
Earlier she was asking to go to her parent’s home but I suggest to visit them after the test, in a day or two. After waiting for her call till late evening, I myself called her father and came to know that she won’t come back. On asking her father, he alleged that I used to ill-treat her and beat her. He also said that he will send her back to my home through proper way/police, and only if I give them in writing that I will never beat her in future.
I try to talk her and make her understand and she gets ready to come in morning but next day when she again didn’t turn up, I again called her father and he denied with same words and threatening voice.
Even they have turned down the proposal we made through our mediator. Now they are silent n taking no steps either way. I called her to ask that if she need her cloths or any other things but she didn’t respond n next time didn’t pick my call.
She is totally talking her parent’s words? It’s not her intention at all.
The reality is: She is of doubting and jealous nature. She prefers her parents more than my family (Bother sister). Before marriage I had made it clear to her about my deep concern to them as we had no Mother and father is not doing well health wise. But she didn’t accept them by heart and on my monetary helping to brother or sister; she got angry and stopped treating / calling n respecting them. Uses foul language for them. Many times she talks very bad words to all my family members while talking to her mother and sister over phone, which I have recorded. I try my level best to mend her ways but fails, so one or two time I slapped her when things went out of controls due to her anti family attitude.
Now I fear of implication in false cases by her father, as he threatens me that he will sent me jail for beating and taking off her all jewelry.
So kindly suggest me what shall I do? Due to her attitude and daily basis tu tu on this or that pretext I am fed up and wanted to end this finally.
1. Should I lodge DDR (FIR) about her leaving my home etc?
2. Should I send her cloths etc, how? Courier or self?
Kindly suggest me ASAP, and also tell me if you need more information...