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Wife demands 35 lakh cash & a 1bedroom hall kitchen aprt

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Tajobsindia (Senior Partner )     14 April 2012

@ Author

 


1. Read your PM sent today to me.

2. You have been sufficiently advised.

3. Still if you are in confusion stage and if this is a case of S. 24 HMA interim maint. then we would say that there cannot be an exhaustive list of factors, which are to be considered in guessing the income of the spouses, but the order based on guess work cannot be arbitrary, whimsical or fanciful. While guessing the income of the spouse, when the sources of income are either not disclosed or not correctly disclosed, the Court can take into consideration amongst others the following factors:

 


(i)
Life style of the spouse;

(ii) The amount spent at the time of marriage and the manner in which marriage was performed;

(iii) Destination of honeymoon;

(iv) Ownership of motor vehicles;

(v) Household facilities;

(vi) Facility of driver, cook and other help;

(vii) Credit cards;

(viii) Bank account details;

(ix) Club Membership;

(x) Amount of Insurance Premium paid;

(xi) Property or properties purchased;

(xii) Rental income;

(xiii) Amount of rent paid;

(xiv) Amount spent on travel/ holiday;

(xv) Locality of residence;

(xvi) Number of mobile phones;

(xvii) Qualification of spouse;

(xviii) School(s) where the child or children are studying when parties were residing together;

(xix) Amount spent on fees and other expenses incurred;

(xx) Amount spend on extra-curricular activities of children when parties were residing together;

(xxi) Capacity to repay loan.

 


These are some of the factors, which may be considered by any court in guesstimating or having a rough idea or to guess the income of a spouse. It has repeatedly been held by the Courts that one cannot ignore the fact that an Indian woman has been given an equal status under
Articles 14 and 16 of the Constitution of India and either spouse have a right to live in dignity and according to the status of other spouse. In the fact before us case, the stand taken by the Applicant wife with respect to her earning is unbelievable.

 

 

In the facts and circumstances of this thread read with your PM of today to us, it is suggested to file an Application before concerned Court to direct both the parties to file along with Affidavit their respective affidavits of assets, income and expenditure from the date of the marriage up to this date containing more particularly the following :-

(i) Relevant documents with respect to income including Salary certificate, Form 16A, Income Tax Returns, certificate from the employer regarding cost to the company, balance sheet, etc.

(ii) Audited accounts, if deponent is running business and otherwise, non-audited accounts i.e. balance sheets, profit and loss account and capital account.

(iii) Statement of all bank accounts.

(iv) Statement of Demat accounts.

(v) Passport.

(vi) Credit cards.

(vii) Club membership cards.

(viii) Frequent Flyer cards.

(ix) PAN card.

(x) Applications seeking job, in case of unemployed person.

 



Under Prayer also pray that the affidavit and documents be filed within a period of four weeks with an advance copy to opposite parties who shall file their response within two weeks thereafter.


Following particulars be revealed under Affidavit by parties;

Personal Information

 

(i) Educational qualifications.

(ii) Professional qualifications.

(iii) Present occupation.

(iv) Particulars of past occupation.

(v) Members of the family.

(a) Dependent.

(b) Independent.

 


Income

 

(i) Salary, if in service.

(ii) Income from business/profession, if self employed.

(iii) Particulars of all earnings since marriage.

(iv) Income from other sources:-

(a) Rent.

(b) Interest on bank deposits and FDRs.

(c) Other interest i.e. on loan, deposits, NSC, IVP, KVP,

 


Post Office schemes, PPF etc.

 

(d) Dividends.

(e) Income from machinery, plant or furniture let on hire.

(f) Gifts and Donations.

(g) Profit on sale of movable/immovable assets.

(h) Any other income not covered above .

 


Assets

 

(i) Immovable properties:-

(a) Building in the name of self and its Fair Market

 


Value (FMV):-

 

- Residential.

- Commercial.

- Mortgage.

- Given on rent.

 


Others

 

(b) Plot/land.

(c) Leasehold property.

(d) Intangible property e.g. patents, trademark, design, goodwill.

(e) Properties in the name of family members/HUF and their FMV.

 


(ii) Movable properties:-

 

(a) Furniture and fixtures.

(b) Plant and Machinery.

(c) Livestock.

(d) Vehicles i.e. car, scooter along with their brand and registration number.

 


(iii) Investments:-

 

(a) Bank Accounts – Current or Savings.

(b) Demat Accounts.

(c) Cash.

(d) FDRs, NSC, IVP, KVP, Post Office schemes, PPF etc.

(e) Stocks, shares, debentures, bonds, units and mutualfunds.

(f)  LIC policy.

(g) Deposits with Government and Non-Government entities.

(h) Loan given to friends, relatives and others.

(i) Telephone, mobile phone and their numbers.

(j) TV, Fridge, Air Conditioner, etc.

(k) Other household appliances.

(l)  Computer, Laptop.

(m) Other electronic gadgets including I-pad etc.

(n) Gold, silver and diamond Jewellery.

(o) Silver Utensils.

(p) Capital in partnership firm, sole proprietorship firm.

(q) Shares in the Company in which Director.

(r) Undivided share in HUF property.

(s) Booking of any plot, flat, membership in Co-op.

 


Group Housing Society.

 

(t) Other investments not covered by above items.



(iv) Any other assets not covered above.

 

Liabilities

 

(i) OD, CC, Term Loan from bank and other institutions.

(ii) Personal/business loan

(a) Secured.

(b) Unsecured.

 

(iii) Home loan.

 

(iv) Income Tax, Wealth Tax and Property Tax.

 


Expenditure

 

(i) Rent and maintenance including electricity, water and gas.

(ii) Lease rental, if any asset taken on hire.

(iii) Installment of any house loan, car loan, personal loan,business loan, etc.

(iv) Interest to bank or others.

(v) Education of children including tuition fee.

(vi) Conveyance including fuel, repair and maintenance of vehicle. Also give the average distance travelled every day.

(vii) Premium of LIC, Medi-claim, house and vehicle policy.

(viii) Premium of ULIP, Mutual Fund.

(ix) Contribution to PPF, EPF, approved superannuation fund.

(x) Mobile/landline phone bills.

(xi) Club subscripttion and usage, subscripttion to news papers, periodicals, magazines, etc.

(xii) Internet charges/cable charges.

(xiii) Household expenses including kitchen, clothing, etc.

(xiv) Salary of servants, gardener, watchmen, etc.

(xv) Medical/hospitalization expenses.

(xvi) Legal/litigation expenses.

(xvii) Expenditure on dependent family members.

(xviii) Expenditure on entertainment.

(xix) Expenditure on travel including outstation/foreign travel, business as well as personal.

(xx) Expenditure on construction/renovation and furnishing of residence/office.

(xxi) Any other expenditure not covered above.

 


General Information regarding Standard of Living and Lifestyle

 

(i) Status of family members.

(ii) Credit/debit cards.

(iii) Expenditure on marriage including marriage of family members.

(iv) Expenditure on family functions including birthday of the children.

(v) Expenditure on festivals.

(vi) Expenditure on extra-curricular activities.

(vii) Destination of honeymoon.

(viii) Frequency of travel including outstation/foreign travel,business as well as personal.

(ix) Mode of travel in city/outside city.

(x) Mode of outstation/foreign travel including type of class.

(xi) Category of hotels used for stay, official as well as personal, including type of rooms.

(xii) Category of hospitals opted for medical treatment including type of rooms.

(xiii) Name of school(s) where the child or children are studying.

(xiv) Brand of vehicle, mobile and wrist watch.

(xv) Value of jewellery worn.

(xvi) Details of residential accommodation.

(xvii) Value of gifts received.

(xviii) Value of gifts given at family functions.

(xix) Value of donations given.

(xx) Particulars of credit card/debit card, its limit and usage.

(xxi) Average monthly withdrawal from bank.

(xxii) Type of restaurant visited for dining out.

(xxiii) Membership of clubs, societies and other associations.

(xxiv) Brand of alcohol, if consumed.

(xxv) Particulars of all pending as well as decided cases including civil, criminal, labour, income tax, excise, property tax, MACT, etc. with parties name.

 


Reasoning:

A. Some threads when answered sufficiently are going into loop and wants some super clarity.

B. Be it so above is Judicial wisdom way out to filter who is lying before concerned Court (lying under Oath – Perjury remember that) and since yours is audited Income Vs. hers un-declared income once all above are produced by respective parties under Affidavit. Sum result either she will not get what she is cunningly seeking and or Court will see parity and may not grant interim maint. to her and or finally once a fighting spirited Husband voluntarily seeks Court directions on above so called exhaustive income – expenditure – liability details such cases ends up in "mutual consented" divorce ways and past histrionics of similar actions as per various trial court read with HC time tested similar Orders reveal what is written in above quote - unquote.

 

 

So dear querriest shall you try above if you have nothing to hide and seeking truth that also in matrimonial affairs of two spouse J

 


PS.: I am not again replying on Custody / visitation part as I have over written on said subject here and let others give their valuable advise on this un-replied here child custody / visitation query.

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Ranee....... (NA)     14 April 2012

Gr8 and v  informative reply by tajobindia..

thanq

doesnt matter (abcd)     15 April 2012

@ Tajobsindia

THANKS A LOT!!!

Either it is deficiceny of my vocabulary or in english language, that i am not fully able to convey my gratitude for the detalied reply given by you. 

Current stage:

 

1. My doctor wife's financial situation is very opaque because:

a) She has not filed returns till year 2008. In 2010 i forced her to file a return for Financial Year 2008-2009, wherein she filed  a 3.5 lac return and paid tax along with penalty. In 2011 she left my house for her parents house to go for child-birth and i am not aware whether she has or has not  filed return for  Financial Year 2009-2010 and  Financial Year 2010-2011.

b) I just have her one tax return and her pan card number.

c) Part of the total cash collection from her clinical practice goes to (unknown to me) bank and part of it goes to purchase gold everymonth. I dont know where the gold is purchased from and where it is kept. I also dont know how many bank accounts she has now started maintaining with a view of splitting and keeping her cash collections in multiple banks.

d) she stays with her parents and i think there is a possibility that she could be depositing some part of money in her dad's bank account (dad is unemployed since 15-20 years) but i guess he must be showing that as tution income or something of that sort or mom's account-mom must be showing it as tution or stiching work income.

e) Her brother is a chartered accountant who is expert at tax evasive accounting practices so i am sure he has donned his thinkng cap to show his sister's income to be minimal so as to pay less tax and also to extract maximum from me.

 

2.       No cases filed in any court yet by any of the concerned parties

 

3.      We have exchanged each other jewellery/clothes/sundry articles-i have given her back, whatever was given to her and to me by her family/friends and she has given me back what was given to her by my family/freinds. Details of this exchange have been recorded on a plain A4 paper. Heading is  "JOINT DECLARATION" wherein the exhaustive list of articles exchanged is recorded and is signed by 7 witnesses from each side present in the meeting including myself and wife.

In the same meeting they conveyed the above mentioned demands of 35 lakhs for child and 1bedroom hall kithcen aprtment- for agreeing to MCD. I pleaded with them that there is no way i can and i will give so much money and a ownership flat too-at the most i will give give monthly some fair & reasonable sum of money  & provide a rental apartment and that too in a locality where i can afford-but they were admant on 35 lakhs lumpsum & ownership flat in their preferred locality-they said monthly payment is too cumbersome and inconvenient for them to collect.

This is nothing but extortion!!! Anyways i was told to get back with what i can give-i have now conveyed that i can give 3 lakhs as one time full and fianl settlement. I guess they must be shocked by the "low amount" offered and they have chosen not to reply.

As of now things are in "no man's land"-which actually suits her fine because she had once orally told me that "either you give me lot of money or i will waste your years in court, because i will ask lot of money for the child-if you give-then i get the child as well as money from you-if you offer less money i wont accept it because actually speaking i am not financially distressed and i dont need money, so i am under no pressure to accept whatever money i can get fast and move on in life-for me demanding exhobitant sum of money is a tool to harass you-frankly speaking i am not some abla nari who is financially depedent on anybody who will settle the matters fast to get the money-i will either take so much money from you that you will be bankrupt or i will waste your years-because for me more than money the prime motivation is harassing you"

I am now at my wits end as to how to negotiate with them-because "a person who has lost fear of death can never be threatned with bodily harm", I dont understand under what grounds to file a contested divorce peition in the court, because i see there is no chance of them agreeing to MCD unless i agree to sum of money which somehwere near their demands-which is impossible for me.

doesnt matter (abcd)     15 April 2012

Doctor wife-stays with her parents 

Dependant

One daughter who is 1.5 years old, not going to any playgoup nursery or preschool yet

 

INCOME

1. Clinical practice and referral fees from pateints referred to superspecialist doctors, big hospitals and pathology labs-everything is in cash!!! She doesnt declare more than approximately 30-40% of annual income which i have estimated from her monthly collection that i have seen when she was staying my house

2. Approximately Rs 150/per patient for a one week medicine and incase its a patient for first time than Rs 750 as 1st time consultancy fees.

3. Visit to other doctors clinics for doing cosmetology procedures-again cash

 

EXPENDITURE

1. Clinic rent (includes usage of water/electricity)

2. Medicine purchase cost from wholesalers to be given to in-clinic patients as weekly dosage

3. Mobile bill

4. Credit card usage for purchase of self use articles

5. Petrol usage of the vehcile

6. Child''s clothes & toys

7. Routine expenses on self which will include clothes/restaurtants/cosmetics etc

ASSETS

1. No property in her name

2. No vehicle in her name-although she uses one

3. SUBSTANTIAL Physical gold holdings-purchased every month-dont know purcahsed from whom & dont know where it is kept.

4. Postal saving scheme deposits-dont know how much is monthly deposited

5. PPF accounted-started by her in FY 2009-2010

6.  NO LIC policy, no medicalim policy.

7. Laptop

8. Demat account for shares/electronic gold/bonds

 

LIABILITIES

 None in the strictest sense of the word that i am aware of -unless now in preparation of the court case she might have taken some  unncessary personal loan

 

Tajobsindia (Senior Partner )     16 April 2012

doesnot matter @ it does matter to me !


"The elevator to success is out of order.

You will therefore have to use the stairs, one step at a time."


So shall you start re-reading my earlier large piece from 42nd. step (line) onwards Sir !!!


You are seeking "forcast" and my earlier reply "fate" is expressed below like;

 

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doesnt matter (abcd)     24 April 2012

Wife is not not budging from her stated price of divorce ie she is still wanting 35 lakhs and 1bhk apartment, otherwise she told me "go and fight in court". 

 

I have decided to file a petition in the court-my question is :

1. Should i file under "irretrivable breakdown of marriage"???? Judging by the speed in indian legal maze-maybe by the time my case comes up for hearing-the law would have been edited with proposed ammendments;

2. Or i should not risk it, and hence file under "mental cruelty"???


(Guest)

again I can say only tajobsir can give you best answer.

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