Namaste respected members of LCI,
I cannot live with my husband and my in-laws, because I fear for my life and my chid's life. I filed a 498A. Then my husband filed a conjugal rights case. And I filed a DV.
But I do not want to take a divorce also, because I do not want to make a life, nor do I want my husband to make a life at the cost of the life of our child, since if we take a divorce, the life of our child will be disturbed. We the parents of our child have no moral right to make a life at the cost of the life of our child.
I am of the opinion that, even if we husband and wife, do not like each other and I do not want to live with him, we have to live together to give a life to our child. It is we, who have brought the child to this world, and it is our moral duty to give a life to the child together as its parents at all costs. We have no moral right to take a divorce and make a life for ourselves at the cost of the life our child.
I want my husband to visit us at a place where there is someone whom I trust and keeps a watchfull eye on the safety of me and my child. After all I have gone through for 5 years at my husband's house, I cannot trust, anyone other than my parents. So I want my husband to visit me and my child at my parent's house, till the time my child grows old upto about 18 years or more, when the child can protect itself. Even though I do not trust or like my husband, I am ready to accept him for the sake of our child, if he visits us at my parent's house.
What remedy do I have under the law? How do I convince the sate of my situation to the court?
I request honorable members to give any valuable feedback in this regard. I would greatly appreciate any help in my case.
Thank you and warm regards