I know this handsome brahmin Madhwa guy. Few days back I got to know via a mutual friend that his parents have found a Tanjore Marati Brahmin girl. But I have some very valid information about this guys past which can harm the marriage. This person has had physical relationship with several females and one of them was a 16 year old school girl. His parents are not aware of his physical relationships and I don’t think he will be sharing any of these facts with his fiancé either.
I don’t want to hurt anyone nor get hurt but the ‘truth’ has to be shared. He is a man who just loves to play games and explores possible intimacy with every woman that attracted him and came his way or within his reach. He has no real and natural sense of values or respect for the feelings of one special woman for nobody fits his voracious lust, he enjoys the game of experiencing every woman's varied passion. It is natural to him as his natural state of being.
I am quite sad he is going to spoil this innocent girls life, now my question to you all –
- Do I need to get in touch with his fiancé and her parents let them the truth? If I have to share the truth - then how do I do it? Will they believe what they hear?
- Do I need to just sit back and watch the innocent lady being trapped for life with a womanizer?
- Do I need to play a spoil sport in someone’s marriage, what is a matured way to handle this situation?
Kindly note: I don't gain anything by letting her know the truth. I have nothing to do wtih this person. I am just an acquintance who knows more than I should. And if the truth has to be verified either the girl who is marrying him has to dig deep to unearth the truth or she has to just marry him blindly for his charms.