We are living separately since 11 yrs. My husband send me to my parents house. He used to come but whenever I tried to talk to settle down together he always even refused to talk at all. Now suddenly he send few relatives to talk to settle down last year. Again this yr another his known person, but he never talks to me about this how to settle down as his parents and he too torchurched me for dowry and also insulted me for nothing when I was with him. They were forcing me to say yes and that after saying yes I cant say no. I was in severe tension. And I didnt go.
Now my husband filed for restitution of conjugal rights in court in his place which is in a different state. As my daughters exams were near and as I had to go far in other state I didnt go. Now here I applied for maintainance for me and daughter as he never took any responsibility of us though he used to visit here once in 2 yrs and in between a gap of 4 yrs. But he never talked to me about settling down. This maintainance was applied mainly as nothing was done from here. I am not working. My father is retired.
Now I would like to know that the maintainance case is applied and so he will definitly say that he is trying to take me so may avoid the maintainance.
My main question is that as I didnt go to other state for to attend the court, can I shift that case here to my local area? How this can be done ? And if I will not go at all and I will be declared exparty then even after the court order to me to go and join my husband if I will not go to join him then will police will come and forcefully take me there to my husband? Or what such severe condition will I have to face? Or if I will go and attend the court there then after proving that they are wrong can I get justice or divorce(how?) mainly no foring on me to join husband. And also about my maintanance, if he will not come here to the court then what will be the next step?
Kinly reply to me about these questions as I want to take the correct steps as now already my life is spoiled but now how to come out of all these problems.
Thanks and Regards!