I am fed up with my arrogant wife.But she is carrying now. Though their parents know her nature, they are threatening me to support her and make her happy.I cant live with her anymore.But I dont think she aggrees for this. Can I file a divorce case against her. Please suggest me.
She came from a rich family and luxurious culture. I came from a poor family. She never understands me and always try to balance the love with the money. She has a sister who married with a rich guy. She always compares with her sisters life and abuses me. She also shouts at my parents. My old father got peralysis with her attitude. And even I cant concentrate on my career. She usually fights with me and go to her parents and stays more than a month and then comes back. Sometimes she threatens me like " I commit suicide" or " I go out and writes a letter against you" or " I go to police station and complains on you". Is there any chance now to leave her and to have my peaceful life back. But she is pregnent now. What do I do?
Being educated and as being team lead so it seems to this reader I say;
First learn to recognise postpartum depression symptoms of your wife !
In medicos terms what you mentioned in your briefs point to a main cause and there is that link between the rapid drop in harmones level of her and what you both are experiencing as result thereto. All these could be manageable if proper family care and medications are opted at early stage before things go out of proportion.
Well, 'shouting at a person' does not result in paralysis otherwise all those netas shouting during election campaign will make half of Indians paralytic then we will enact Indian Paralysis Act, 2011.
However, being rich and poor as in two spouse ‘grounds’ should have been compared pre-marriage and not as after thoughts now!
Reasoning: Incompatibility is one of the issues which is seen in your briefs and may be due to lifestyles you both lead coupled with her pre-childbirth stage. All are manageable, see medicos and be close to her during her this phase instead of drifting apart. Married life and a kid to a couple is beautiful and adds more responsibility to a man than a women who just needs to follow up a loving caring husband.
Thanks for your advise. But If I file divorse, is there any chance for her parents to file any other cases on me to force me to take this step back. They may also threaten me by his son who is a gunda.. And her father has good political background. Please suggest me