all divorced or separated women here,please share the problems that you encounter after a divorce or separation.
i have been reading posts on LCI forums for quite a long time and disccovered that people think all divorced women are some home breakers who derive satisfaction in breaking a home,only to get some money.
people feel our life becomes very rosy after we get maintenance.
but they do not realise we face so many other problems...
i am listing a few problems that i face or have faced in the past.
i urge other ladies also to post frankly about their hatdships,so that others can know how difficult life becomes after a divorce:
1. Rudeness of maternal family members.They are frustrated girl has returned.so they take it out on girl.
2. while attending marriage,if any distant relative doesn't know of your divorce and he ask why husband has not acommpany me,it get embarssing to reply he is no more with me.
3. hardships in getting job,especially if age has crossed 30.maintenance money lasts only for a while.then it also finishes.
4. dependence on brothger or other family members,if there is no job because of above reason.they are also burdened.
5. remarriage problems(lot depends on luck)...
6. ridiculing and backbiting at workplace,"this woman is divorced".