We got married in Dehradun on 28th of Nov 2013 and my native place is Gorakhpur I was working in Noida and living in Faridabad she came there on 29th of Nov 2013 with her cousin and stayed for 2 days and went back to Dehradun according to some traditional customs and all.She denied for any physical relation saying that she needs time i respected her decision.My mother and four sisters were there,my mother said this is not right but i convinced her that its OK we have time and why to hurry so i slept in another room and she with her cousin.
I married her against my parents wish so my father and peoples from my community and close relatives didn't attended the marriage except some friends,my mother and my sisters and one of my sister's husband whose married in Gurgaon.However it was an arranged marriage through matrimonial site.
She lived in Dehradun till 14th Of December as her parents were saying that let her live here from some time as she is the youngest daughter and don't have any brother so they feel alone, so never forced her to come back ,during this period she had an accident with her scooty in Dehradun and was not well had some scratches on her leg and elbow. She came back to faridabad in my rented house on 15th of December, one of my sister was with me when we headed for Dehradun on 13th night of nov 2013 to bring her back.
She stayed with me for seven days my sister took her to hospital for bandage and medicines. During these seven days also i never asked her for physical relation as it didn't sound good to me, on 21st of Dec her elder sister visited our house along with her two kids who lives in Ghaziabad with her husband and she went to her sisters house saying that she had to take her B.ed. exam and from there she will go to Dehradun.
She remained there till 7th of march 2013 and came back with her parents including her uncle,aunt and her sister who lives in khatima with her husband they stayed with us for 3 to 4 days and left. After this her mother asked me to take some job as i had resigned from the job because of appraisal and i said that i ll work as a freelancer and we can earn through that and i will also get some recognition because if you are working in company you are working as labour and nobody knows you out in the world i tried to convince her mom and my wife but they refused and said she is going back to Dehradun and she ll only return when i ll join somewhere, i said ok i ll look for a job but her mother came up with one more condition that you ll give all your money in my daughters hand then only she ll live with you it was very shocking for me and i strictly denied to this and said go wherever you want to go i cannot live with conditions as i have three sisters to marry and my whole family depends on me my father was labour in a private company and it got closed 15 years back so it s my responsibility to take care of them.
I worked very hard to complete my studies from selling news paper to wall paintings and so many other part time jobs and when i achieved something in my life these people came in to it for ruining my life and my family it was a very disheartening for me and I was in great pain.
After this her mother asked me to come along with her to Dehradun i denied them as i was not happy with the behavior of my wife but her mother convinced me that all will be OK please come with us so i went to Dehradun with them.there she came with another proposal that "you stay with us then only she ll have any kind of physical relation with you" they tried to convince me but i denied and return back to faridabad without saying any thing to them.It was like blackmailing me in the name of physical relation.And they are using their own daughter for there personal gain.
They never bothered to even call me and on 16Th of April 2013 i sent her birthday gifts as it was her birthday hoping that everything ll get all right , but it never happened i tried to call her but she never picked the phone nor her mother i sent her messages to return back stating that i have joined a company but never got any reply, I also asked her even if you dont want to live with me please reply but no replies from her and after this i never tried to called her.
On June 8th her father mailed me to return all the jewellery and home appliances which he had given to her Daughter on the eve of her marriage i accept that i have home appliances which is with me right now bit i don't know anything about jewellery whether she came with the jewellery or not or her mother took all the things with them including her clothes,which i found when i returned back from Dehradun.
I called her father and asked him are you trying to finish this relation he didn't answer, I tried to call her mother but she didnt answered and i got message from her father,plz send all the things of my daughter and then try to talk.He also messaged me to send your present residential addrees and office address,which i told to my friend and he said that don't tell them as he can come to office and do anything to you as he is a influential person so dont send them address and i did what he told me.
I got call from Dehradun police on 31st of nov to attend dehradun PS on 19th of December(Friday) for counseling, she didn't even told me in which police station. Why she asked me to come after 18 days.
Thank you very much for all your support!