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hello. my wife is living seprtly since 2006 and having one 4 years daughter with her from our wedlock. now the scene is she filed complnt in CAW cell. i want divorce. she wants to come back. i denied. then CAW people asked her for settlement out of court. previously she was not agree for divorce, then she demanded 54 lacs. CAW persons recorded in writtn dat she wants 54 lacs for divorce. m having good bussnss having mnthly incme of 1.75 lacs per mnth, she is working in private cmpny earng 30k per month.

1. wat is the benifit/loss of the paper where CAW people reocrded that she wants to come back, i want divorce, and she wants 54 lacs oderwse legal actn should do agnst me??

2. wat she can do to harass me?

3. wat should i do, as i want divorce

 
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Self Employed

She harassed you?My my!

You have deserted her.So she went for reconciliation at CAW.You denied her the right to live with you also,without thinking of your little daughter whose mental health may be affected due to divorce.

 

After lots of pressure she agreed for a divorce also.It's obvious she will demand a heavy compensation for her future and for her girl child.She has to raise her alone and also get her married which is costly in case of a daughter's marriage.

Instead of empathising you say she's harassing you,while you harassed her enuf.

She demanded heavy alimony as you are earning almost 2 lakhs.Although she earns 30,000,this salary can't give her same standard of living which you have.If she plans to file DV in future,court will also consider this.

 

Yes the statement at CAW will go against you if she decides to file any cases in future.You'll be accused of desertion.

So either live with her happily after 4getting all the past,with a fresh life,or give her a handsome alimony or be ready for long litigations,if she decides to file cases.Mind you,your lawyer will also expect a heavy fee,when he comes to know your salary!

You can't have your way always,that you dump her and throw a few thousand or lakh rupees on her face

I am sounding harsh,but this is the reality.

 

TC!


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There are some threads which I have just now gone through which suggest how an organisation called SIFF can transform you to Rehadiwala, Khomchewala, Chaiwala etc. to circumvent the sensible demand which your wife has made on you...in fact she has asked for a pittance keeping in view your prosperous business and her economic status and that she has little daughter with her. 

 
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@ Author,

  1. It is cheaper to concede to her ‘demands’ keeping her future ‘incapacitation’ and side by side a ‘girl’ child in between ‘present and future needs’ coupled with ‘change in circumstances’ which both may use in ‘future’ against you irrespective you re-married or living like a begger.


  2. Harassment is a word which can be used by both gender and it is not the prerogative of only ‘wife’s’ that she shall only use this word as wrongly inferenced by feminists here. Listen, in marriage it is not 100% binding that only a wife gets ‘harassed’. I am not touching the respective reasons here hence no reasoning follows.

  3. Solution to married couples problem does exists and they are;

(a)   Legally you can get all copies of documents as in ‘file’ of CAW cell so relax.

(b)   Secure child’s future first by forecasting reasonably a child’s needs for another 15 years and onwards by investing into financial kitty for child. A father drawing currently slightly 2 L is a person of ‘means’ and no story can be cut before Bench on this material facts.

(c)   A reasonable sum of 20 K per men sum till she remarries or dies whichever is earlier could be offered as MCD terms. Raising this bar to 30 K per men sum as final negotiations to get over with respective non-conducive lives of parties. These figures are quite logical even all permutations / combinations of Ld. Judges application of mind on parties ‘status’ even applied hence showeth herein as ‘offer’.

(d)   Seek sub para 1 docs. Invite wife for negotiations and ensure her side calls you. File ‘criminal intimidation’ pvt. Complaint case against her. Get witness summoning issued for freezing cellphone datas and seek such statements on record from cellphone company providers. Now during this if she uses IPC sections then your apprehensions which prompted you to file a ‘pvt. Complaint’ comes true and she will be declared ‘accused by way of summon’ and now her side will come to negotiation table where in you are meant to follow above sub para c suggestions as ‘reasonable settlement’.



At the end advise is that donot ‘chase divorce’ in present Family law format. Instead make it happen the “legal-logical” way by following above sub para advised.


Rest advise of feminists I donot subscribe as they are indirectly meant to sound as ‘gospel truth’ to build the pressure on husbands!


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@meenal mam: u dnt knw she is so cunning, always speak ill to my parents. i cant tolerate her behaviour. mam my question is that-

1. WILL THAT PAPER (WHERE SHE DEMANDED 54 LCS IN CAW CELL) PROVIDED BY CAW CELL GO AGAINST HER...IF SHE FILES CASE IN COURT FOR REUNION.... AS THAT PAPER ALSO WRITTEN THAT "SHE WANTS TO GO BACK AND I DENIED, I WANT DIVORCE"..where can i use (her demand 54 lacs) against her? plz guide..

regarding little daughter, i m ready to take my child. but not ready to take wife back, as now i feel risk as she can lodge complaint against me/my family to take her revenge.

 
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@Keshav

 

You  WANT DIVORCE.so ,you have to pay hafty alimony to your wife along with daughter for final settlement .

Invite wife for negotiations as she demand  54 lacs.

First tell me why you want to get divorce?

As you said she wants to come back. I denied.Why?

 

If you dont want to live with her then ready for giving the maintenance  to wife and daughter irrespective the fact that  your income of 1.75 lacs per mnth, she is working in private cmpny earng 30k per month.If court consider it also you want to pay for alimony.Better try to Invite wife for negotiations for final settlement for divorce.

 

Chapter XXXVI of the Code of Criminal Procedure providing for maintenance of wives and children intends to serve a social purpose.


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@tajobsindia: thnks for ur reply sir...but i m not getting ‘criminal intimidation’ ....wat is dis...n how can i file dis case???

@kushan: i want divorce, coz i feel risk as if she comes back , she 'll certnly file compalnt against me/my family to take revenge..as when she was living with me.. and second thng is she filed a huge complnt in CAW cell against me/parents...which irriattes me a lot

 
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 @ Author


1. if you are not 'criminally intimidated" by her actions then what your wife went to CAW cell for and asked 54 L for ?  Was she planning to go on Around The World Trip kya curtsey CAW cell tagging parties most affected 4 yrs. old kid ............


2. I pity you men who are still naive and ignore the basic 'signs' of a breaking marriage on the garb of being busy counting 'moneyrama'. 

 

4. Study last "175" messages in Family Law forum and then probably you will understand what actually is the 'motive' of 'both' of you on un-reasonability grounds. 

 

 
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Dear Friend,  Do u think u will find solution in Divorce ?, please think twice, you cant give mother to your daughter. please find a solution to live happyly insted of finding new family


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propra

Straight calculations!!

It would be better to pay monthly installments (20k, 30k p.m.) rather than 54 lacs!! Its economical.

 

You can invest 54lacs properly and keep paying from it and you would retian the principle amount as well as some surplus of income from it.

 

Do cost benefit analysis!!


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