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chinni (SW Engineer)     07 June 2012

Please advice-urgent

Hi.. We got married in 2008 January. My wife is rude and she is a house wife. She wanted to live close to her parents. I came to London in 2011 January and it will be very difficult If I land here with family with out any arrangements for house and other basic things. So we mutually discussed and she did agree that she will come and join me once I arrange all the basic facilities. But, after arranging all the facilities in couple of months, I did request my wife to come and join. Since then she is not showing any interest to come and join me. I did request her multiple times on this but no use. She wanted to keep my baby close to her parents and that is the reason she is not coming. few elder persons tried to convience her by mediation but she told them that I never informed her to come and join me. I have all the emails that I sent her requesting to join me. she is threatening me that she will file a DV case if I force her to come. psychologically am soo disturbed with out seeing my baby. Is there any way that I can take legal action on her and will that help me in any way?


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Asha (aegfdg)     07 June 2012

Hi Chinni,

I don't have any legal advice. I would just like to share my opinion.

I think your wife is not confident of taking care of a new born, she is simply scared. She feels more secured to stay with her parents rather than going to London with you carrying a baby.

I suggest you to give her the confidence and assurity, make her feel secured. If you file any case or force her to come with you, it will only make her feel more scared and less secure.


I also have another thought, if she is not willing to shift to London, you shift back to India. Whats the big deal. Keep it simple. You are complicating things. Hope you understand that wife and baby are more important.  It is the choice you make. If your priortize your career for family. I guess you will loose your family.

Adv. Chandrasekhar (Advocate)     07 June 2012

I agree with ashaji except the contents of last para.  give her some time and confidence and she will go along with baby to U.K.

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