charishma (manager) 04 April 2011

on first hearing

hello to all my friends. here i have n enquiry regarding first hearing date in court. i m respodent of RCR. first hearing is on 27 may. pls suggest me

1. how should i prepare for first hearing??? any rough idea wat will happen on that day? as this is my first hearing, i m little bit scared. in caw cell,i bluntly said i need divorce. but hubby wants to continue. altho' he admits 6 months back that he needs divorce. now he is playing double game and file petition of RCR. i dnt want alimony. i want my money/jewellery/property back.

2. also suggest me how to get certified copies of registry, as my parents gifted me one rowhouse on marriage, registered on both of us name (me n hubby). original registry is with him. i need certified copies. i know details of registry. but cant go to that city, as far away from my home town. wats the procedure n cost of certified copy of registry??

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@charishma

First hearing dont worry.Be calm .court will give you a date.court will ask whether you want to join matrimonial home?etc.

Now,you said i want my money/jewellery/property back.

My question is Do you have all this bills?

Read this links that contains all thia information.

https://www.lawyersclubindia.com/forum/Re-What-is-Stridhan--6777.asp

https://yedhulaprakash1.lawyersclubindia.com/experts/Stridhan-Interim-Maintenance-125586.asp

How-to-claim-back stridhan:

https://jizleejoset.lawyersclubindia.com/experts/How-to-claim-back-stridhan--155806.asp

Distinction between “Dowry and “Stridhan”

https://dcsrivastava54.lawyersclubindia.com/forum/Dummies-guide-What-to-do-when-false-stridhan-list-submitted--23153.asp

https://www.lawyersclubindia.com/forum/details.asp?mod_id=32212&1=1&offset=2

https://www.lawyersclubindia.com/forum/details.asp?mod_id=32212&1=1&offset=3

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charishma (manager) 04 April 2011

thanks vyas sir. now one thing is coming in my mind that during marriage, almost 20-22 tola golds were given to me by my inlaws. i have pics of them in which inlaws are gifting me gold sets etc. plus there are about 10 tolas of gold that i had recieved from hubby's relatives as 'muh-dikhai'. but all of my jewellery (given by my parents+by inlaws+by relatives) were taken by my mother-in-law and she kept it in her own locker, saying that you are bit amateur, in our custody all jewellery is safe. and after few months, i requested my mother-in-law to give me atleast that jewellery which was given by my parents. she gave me few of them. all other jewelelry is still in her custody. total almost 45-50 tola gold, out of which i m having only 15 tola maximum. gold prize is 21500 these days..so almost 35 tola of 7.5lacs is with her.

can i legally claim that jewellery also,which were gifted by inlaws or hubby's relatives (as i dnt ahve any bill of that jewellery, coz that was purchased by inlaws for me)

how can i take this 'stridhan' back???