Hi all,
This side another harassed husband with his problems. My marriage is about 14 month old. Between these 14 months we spent only figure counting days with each other. Though I’m working for a leading media house in Delhi and she (wife) is working for nationalized bank as asst. mgr in bhubabneswar. It’s love marriage against her family and also a inter cast marriage. At the time of marriage her family didn’t support and my mother took the initiative and we finally got married.
Now the problem is about her attitude which imminently changed after 2 month of our marriage. Her family tries to divert her mind. She started staying there for weeks and ignoring my mother. She comes home only when I’m in Bhubaneswar (in every 3-4 month I used to go home). I requested her to take transfer to delhi she refused and said u come to Orissa, though she has a Govt. Job, she can’t leave it. In between these 6 months she left my home 3-4 times. Now the problem is that she is threatening me to go to MAHILA commission and suicide and all sorts of rubbish things.
Here she is forcing me to leave my job and I can’t leave it caz I did 1 of my sisters marriage before 4 month back and made my house which was one of her conditions before marriage. Now I’m in a big loan burden, she is not cooperating both in family expansion (making child) and financial matter. (She is now 34 yrs).
So, please suggest what I exactly have to do with this relationship. I asked her to go for mutual diverse but she is denying and threatening me for a big compensation and if not then she will lodge a FIR of dowry torture against my mother and sister. For your information I didn’t have anything received from their family and even bed and pillow I purchased. I have already requested her parents but they are saying its ur problem u solve and in the other hand they are letting her daughter to stay in their home.
Please help meand any lawyer can u suggest for cosultation.
