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Sumeet Ganguly   29 April 2018

Need advice with my marriage.

A short summary of marriage : This is an arranged marriage and I have been in this for past 5 years. My husband and I do not share a very happy loving affectionate marriage we have been having a lot of fights and quarrels. I understand that we both are very different beings, and now after so many years I have become normal human being and things don't affect me as much. Details : I'm 30 years old. (female) we do not have children. I have a property which belongs to my parents but technically there is no property on my name... I am not working/ earning yet. Even if I think about my parent's property when you coming to meet will be divided as I am not the only child. Questions : 1. Can my husband forcibly divorce me? 2. What if I don't want to divorce him, can he still force the divorce? Is it. Necessary for me to live with him in the same house? What could be the effects if I start staying with my parents? please advice. 3. I have considered divorce but I think my husband will not give me alimony. For the sake of security and my future and I think that being in this marriage is more suitable than a divorce. Please advise.


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Kumar Doab (FIN)     29 April 2018

It is believed that you are all Hindu.

Did you marry under Special Marriage Act?

Confirm!

 

Kumar Doab (FIN)     29 April 2018

Divorce is granted by court of law on valid grounds ; desertion by either spouse being one...after listening to both sides and granting opportunity of mediation, repproachment, reconciliation.. !

 

Sumeet Ganguly   30 April 2018

Yes Hindu. But the girl feels she shouldn't divorce and that her life is more secured by not divorcing the family.

Sumeet Ganguly   30 April 2018

Yes Hindu. But the girl feels she shouldn't divorce and that her life is more secured by not divorcing the family.

Sumeet Ganguly   30 April 2018

Yes Hindu. But the girl feels she shouldn't divorce and that her life is more secured by not divorcing the family.

Vijay Raj Mahajan (Advocate)     30 April 2018

Firstly note down, like marriage which cannot be forced, divorce cannot be forced by the husband upon you. The divorce by mutual consent where both parties agree, that agreement need to be free of any force, undue influence or fraud on either of the parties. Secondly about the permanent alimony and maintenance is concerned, that a wife can claim if she has no or very minimal means to maintain herself and the husband has sufficient means from which he can provide the wife the fincancial help to avoid a destitute condition for the wife. It is financial security that husband is supposed to provide. As far living in the same house where husband lives, that is the right of the wife which she can implement if the husband refuse through court, even after the divorce, the divorced wife can be allowed to live in the same house by the court till the time she is able to get another place to live. The life of the wife is quite secure if her rights are implimented with the help of expert , qualifed lawyer.


(Guest)
Originally posted by : Sumeet Ganguly

A short summary of marriage :
This is an arranged marriage and I have been in this for past 5 years.

My husband and I do not share a very happy loving affectionate marriage we have been having a lot of fights and quarrels. I understand that we both are very different beings, and now after so many years I have become normal human being and things don't affect me as much.



Details :
I'm 30 years old. (female) You R 30 years old and need advice on YOUR marriage???
we do not have children.

I have a property which belongs to my parents but technically there is no property on my name... Anyway some day that will come to your name after their death.
I am not working/ earning yet.
Why not working? muft ki roti toding? join some job. work.. earn money. be independent.
Even if I think about my parent's property when you coming to meet will be divided as I am not the only child.
???????? cant understand. if you not only child then property will be divided equally if it is ancestral. if it self earned then your parents can give it to a dog also, and you wont get anything.
Questions :

1. Can my husband forcibly divorce me? ?yes?
2. What if I don't want to divorce him, can he still force the divorce? YESIs it. Necessary for me to live with him in the same house? NOT NECESSARY FOR YOU TO LIVE IN SAME HOUSE UNDER SAME ROOF, BUT IF IT IS LIKE THAT IT WILL DEFEAT THE PURPOSE OF MARRIAGE. What could be the effects if I start staying with my parents? please advice.MARRIAGE WILL COME TO AN END.  
3. I have considered divorce but I think my husband will not give me alimony. IF ALIMONY WAS THE ONLY REASON YOU MARRIED FOR, THEN YOU SHOULD HAVE FOUND SOMEONE LIKE VIJAY MALLYA AND  MARRIED HIM AND TAKEN DIVORCE AFTER 1 MONTH, HE WOULD HAVE GIFTED HIS PLANE WORTH 4 MILLION AND THAT WOULD SUFFICE A LIFE TIME FOR YOU AND ALSO YOUR NEIGHBOURS.

For the sake of security and my future and I think that being in this marriage is more suitable than a divorce. Please advise.

IF YOU CANT LIVE WITH HIM THEN TAKE DIVORCE. MARRIAGE SHOULD PROSPER YOU BOTH NOT MAKE YOU  BOTH BEGGARS.  IF YOU HV THOUGHT ABOUT IT AND IF MARRIAGE IS NOT WORTH YOUR LIFE, THEN TAKE MUTUAL DIVORCE.  FIND SOMEONE ELSE WHO COULD SATISFY YOU MORALLY, PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY.


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