SORRY FOR MULTIPLE POSTINGS BUT I CAN'T CONTROL MYSELF. I HAVE NOT SEEN MY SON SINCE 1.5 YEARS.
I am writing my 498a story here. Praying that authorities wakeup from sleep.
My personal experience first:-
Girl filed 498a for there greedy needs. There is no-one to help husband. 'NO-ONE'.. The only way to escape is, "sar par kafan baandh lo, aur pagal saand ki tarah bhid jao". You can't run. Don't panic. The more confident are you, lesser the courage of girl & her family.
My story now
My wife filled 498a on me. Why ? B'coz her brother send dirty sms & calls from a fake number to my sis's fiance & there ill doing get caught.( I have proofs). They do so b'coz I asked them to return my money which I lend them as credit after marriage to recover after "huge" expence of marriage &,( Don't think I lied, they transfer car which they give in marriage as security in my name) & also my BIL want to marry my sis to her BIL. I have a little fight with my wife. But after a week & full planing , She runaway with her father & brother when I am at work. (why she run ? why after a week. Think yourself).
Her parents arrange her marriage on false basis. (can't tell u all, example she is 7 years old than me, proof nikahnama). But when I was blessed with a son(only child in my family) that girl got mad. She take away my 5 month old son (when her family's ill doing get caught). since than I never see him. (1.5 years). My bro & sis are crazy about bhabhi & the kid. But that girl used my son as a tool to blackmail me. Her father asked to transfer property in her name when we reach her home to take her back. They create a lot of scene. They do so in the influence of 498a. Her bro said ,"ulta latkawa doonga".
After that incident, I prepare myself for the fight. (as said above,"sar pe kafan baandh liya.")
You may think this is only a side of story. U think right. But read further.
Everyone says womencell suppress boy's family. But in my case they are on my side. They scold girl. Then Girl went to PS. After listening to me SI scold her. They went to DCP. Same there too. Now they went to Commissioner of delhi police. Commissioner's office called DCP. Then same here. He make girl's family member runaway. Now they went to women's commission. After listening to me. They closed file & ask me file defamation case against her.
Not enough, on my sis's wedding day her advocate make file 498a on me. But as everybody is in my favor. they did nothing & I get to know about FIR after a week of my sis's marriage. I applied for AB.
Now in court, judge send us in mediation, mediator listen to her "blah-blah" first . Then mine. Here also mediator shouted on her & said to me," Don't think of taking this girl home". Girl's family ask 20 lakh. I shouted in mediation," for what do I pay? mere saath hi bura hua main hi paise doo? " Her brother scold me there. I beat him inside mediation. But still mediator is in my favor. (Than mediation cancelled).
Back to judge. Judge listen to both of us. He badly scold her whole family and ask her to return. But no result. Then he grant me & my family bail( I think in anger). Even before returning of her goods. But I returned all the goods)
Her father is 7 years retired & is 3rd grade employ in railways & is less than 10% in finance of me. I ask them for dowry ?
I have proofs of there ill doings- nikahnama, sound recording of dirty talk between girl & her family(specially her mother). and many other proofs. (what is need of installing the recorder?)
They people are Criminals.
Overall who is in loss? Girl didn't get married till 35 due to her family's this attitude, I lost only kid in my family & reputation also. Girl & her family did wrong but my family got blacklisted. We have to seek bail & we can't do anything. Is this right?
It cost me almost 1 lakh, in advocates, everybody's 'Khyaal' etc.etc. I burn my money with a smile on my face. No-matter how true & right I am.
Womencell, PS, comisson of women, mediator, judge all says ,"ladkiya ka bura haal ho gya hai is kanoon ki wajah se. 90% case jhooth hote hain. They itself didn't want to change but want whole family to change." They said this to all girls, not only for mine.
Are they all wrong.????????
