A Story Of Mukhtaran Bibi
Only a few leaders are alchemists who take the worst of human behavior and turn it into the best. Mukhtaran Bibi, a Pakistani woman raised in poverty and illiteracy, has responded to the violence and gender apartheid directed at her and other women with an insistence on justice and education. Her tragedy began in 2002 when her brother was accused of walking with a girl from a higher tribal group. In a culture in which female bodies are battlegrounds for male honor, the village court ruled that he be punished with the rape of his sister. Bibi was assaulted by four men and paraded naked through the village.
There are perhaps thousands of such "honor crimes" in
But Bibi is far from safe. Only global pressure forced
Mukhtaran Bibi (Punjabi, Urdu: مختاراں بی بی, born circa 1972,[1] now known as Mukhtār Mā'ī,[2] مختار مائی) is a Pakistani woman from the village of Meerwala, in the rural tehsil(county) of Jatoi of the Muzaffargarh District of Pakistan. Mukhtār Mā'ī was the victim of agang rape as a form of honour revenge, on the orders of a panchayat (tribal council) of the local Mastoi Baloch clan that was richer and more powerful as opposed to her Gujjar clan.[3]By custom, rural women are expected to commit suicide after such an event.[4][5][6] Instead, she spoke up, and pursued the case, which was picked up by the international media, creating pressure on the Pakistani government and the police to address the rape. The case eventually went to trial, and her rapists were arrested, charged and convicted, until an appeals court overturned the convictions. The case is still pending with the Supreme Court of Pakistan. Mukhtar has been waging a legal battle in
In April 2007, Mukhtar Mai won the North-South Prize from the Council of Europe.[7] In 2005,Glamour Magazine named her "Glamour Woman of the Year".[8] According to the New York Times, "Her autobiography is the No. 3 best seller in
According to the New York Times, Mukhtar Mai, her friends, colleagues and their families are at great risk from violence by local feudal lords, and/or the government of
Marriage
On March 15, 2009, Mai married Nasir Abbas Gabol, a police constable from the area near Multan, in Muzaffargarh district, Punjab province. Gabol had previously proposed marriage but was refused by Mai, because he was already married and Mai "didn't want to ruin his first wife's life." Gabol later threatened his first wife, Rukhsana, with divorce and, according to Mai, attempted suicide after the refusal. Gabol's two sisters, also married into Rukhsana's family as part of a bridal exchange (known as Watta satta), were threatened with divorce by their own husbands should Gabol proceed with plans to divorce his wife. Thus, Mai finally agreed to marry Gabol as his second wife "on humanitarian grounds," not wanting three families to break up because of her refusal of marriage[
For more Info Go to ;1. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mukhtaran_Bibi
2.https://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1187392,00.html