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Mukhtaran Bibi

 

A Story Of Mukhtaran Bibi 

 

 

Only a few leaders are alchemists who take the worst of human behavior and turn it into the best. Mukhtaran Bibi, a Pakistani woman raised in poverty and illiteracy, has responded to the violence and gender apartheid directed at her and other women with an insistence on justice and education. Her tragedy began in 2002 when her brother was accused of walking with a girl from a higher tribal group. In a culture in which female bodies are battlegrounds for male honor, the village court ruled that he be punished with the rape of his sister. Bibi was assaulted by four men and paraded naked through the village.

 

There are perhaps thousands of such "honor crimes" in Pakistan each year. Survivors are more likely to kill themselves or be killed by their families than turn to a legal system that requires four male adult Muslim eyewitnesses to testify to rape—otherwise the victim can be convicted of fornication and adultery. But Bibi went to court. Her bravery attracted support from international media and women's groups, and her attackers were convicted. With the compensation money plus contributions from people who read about her struggle, she created a girls' school. Now 33, she has become a skilled organizer and trusted leader, and a magnet for other women escaping violence.

 

But Bibi is far from safe. Only global pressure forced Pakistan to give her a passport so she could meet women abroad, and she still receives death threats from those who view her as a danger to the nation's image and social order. Like Nelson Mandela, another alchemist who redeemed human nature by example, she depends on ordinary supporters to keep herself and her work alive.

 

Mukhtaran Bibi (PunjabiUrdu: مختاراں بی بی, born circa 1972,[1] now known as Mukhtār Mā'ī,[2] مختار مائی) is a Pakistani woman from the village of Meerwala, in the rural tehsil(county) of Jatoi of the Muzaffargarh District of Pakistan. Mukhtār Mā'ī was the victim of agang rape as a form of honour revenge, on the orders of a panchayat (tribal council) of the local Mastoi Baloch clan that was richer and more powerful as opposed to her Gujjar clan.[3]By custom, rural women are expected to commit suicide after such an event.[4][5][6] Instead, she spoke up, and pursued the case, which was picked up by the international media, creating pressure on the Pakistani government and the police to address the rape. The case eventually went to trial, and her rapists were arrested, charged and convicted, until an appeals court overturned the convictions. The case is still pending with the Supreme Court of Pakistan. Mukhtar has been waging a legal battle in Pakistan in the years since, and, as a direct result, her safety has been constantly in jeopardy. Despite this, she started theMukhtar Mai Women's Welfare Organization to help support and education Pakistani women and girls, and is an outspoken advocate for women's rights.

 

In April 2007, Mukhtar Mai won the North-South Prize from the Council of Europe.[7] In 2005,Glamour Magazine named her "Glamour Woman of the Year".[8] According to the New York Times, "Her autobiography is the No. 3 best seller in France ... movies are being made about her, and she has been praised by dignitaries like Laura Bush and the French foreign minister".[9] However, on April 8, 2007, the New York Times reported that Mukhtar Mai lives in fear for her life from the Pakistan government and local feudal lords.[10] General Pervez Musharraf, the former president of Pakistan, has admitted on his personal blog[11] that he placed restrictions on her movement in 2005, as he was fearful that her work, and the publicity it receives, hurt the international image of Pakistan.

 

According to the New York Times, Mukhtar Mai, her friends, colleagues and their families are at great risk from violence by local feudal lords, and/or the government of Pakistan.

 

Marriage

On March 15, 2009, Mai married Nasir Abbas Gabol, a police constable from the area near Multan, in Muzaffargarh districtPunjab province. Gabol had previously proposed marriage but was refused by Mai, because he was already married and Mai "didn't want to ruin his first wife's life." Gabol later threatened his first wife, Rukhsana, with divorce and, according to Mai, attempted suicide after the refusal. Gabol's two sisters, also married into Rukhsana's family as part of a bridal exchange (known as Watta satta), were threatened with divorce by their own husbands should Gabol proceed with plans to divorce his wife. Thus, Mai finally agreed to marry Gabol as his second wife "on humanitarian grounds," not wanting three families to break up because of her refusal of marriage[

 

For more Info Go to ;1. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mukhtaran_Bibi

2.https://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1187392,00.html

 

 



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