Originally posted by : Lucky Khan
I am in love with a Muslim guy. I am a hindu. i want to marry him. we are in relationship since last 9 years. Due to some minsunderstanding we had breakup before 8 months. But then we realise and we met again. But he got married last month due to pressure from his family. But still he is not happy and doesnot have any relationship with his wife.
He cannt divorce his wife due to some problems, but we want to marry. I have some questions:
1) Can we do court marriage? will they send any notice to our parents?
2) What is Special marriage act? can we marry as per this?
3) Will are marriage be legal as per law? or he need to give divorce?
4) Can our parents or that girl file a case against us??
5) What would be consequences of our marriage?? Is there any solution to our problem. I want to do solve this problem ASAP.
Please help us. Thanks
You get married, court, out of court, mandir masjid etc..
Consequences would be as follows,
His parents will not accept you, would ask you to get converted to islam
You wont accept, then they will reject you, they might as well tell, they do not confirm and agree to this marriage and leave you on the streets.
your guy and you might make a living seperately,
Then his parents wont come to your place, nor will your parents come to your place.
Next is children, there will be an argument about which religion would children follow, hiduism or islam
Parents of both you people would be unhappy for the rest of their lives.
He being a muslim would want your children be brought up the paigambar way.
Later on your guy might object you going to temple.
you may as well end up naming your children half hindu half muslim names, reminding people of arvind swamy and manisha koirala of maniratnams Bombay.
Either of you might end up feeling why the hell did I fall in love in the first place.
Might end up feeling, why was I even born in the first place.
Even if it is 2013, societal norms have not changed in the mindset of people with regards to inter religion marriage, change or acceptance of such marriages is only in the books.
You might find a lot of trouble finding a place to live in when either of your parents do not accept you into their homes, if it were a normal intercaste marriage or same caste marriage, nobody would fear giving his or her house for rent or lease, but he being a muslim, one would definitely want, not giving accomodation to you.
These are the possible consequences of what might happen next.
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