M in love with a married man who works with me in my office. he is married to a widow who has a daughter and now he is taking care of this child too. theirs was a love marriage . but after marriage he realised tat his wife doesn take good care of him. she doesn even care for him ven he is ill. Now he regrets for his marriage. But he never complains to me abt his wife and is a very understanding husband. Now v r in love with each other. But he says tat he cant leve his wife and marry me cause, he cant spoil her life again after giving her so much hope ven she was depressed abt her first husbands death. I too don want to spoil another womens happiness for the sake of my life. At the same time i am so deeply in love with him tat i cannot think abt another man in my life. If m supposed to get married, it is only with him. So i am just waiting for some miracle to happen in my life so tat i can marry him. M 23 yrs old and my parents have already slowly started talks abt my marriage. Plz advice if m right or wrong and temme wat to do to convince my parents abt not getting married. If i cant get married to my love i will stay as single throughout my life.