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Section 10 in THE DIVORCE ACT, 1869
Grounds for dissolution of marriage.
(1) Any marriage solemnized, whether before or after the commencement* of the Indian Divorce (Amendment) Act, 2001, may, on a petition presented to the District Court either by the husband or the wife, be dissolved on the ground that since the solemnization of the marriage, the respondent
(ix) has deserted the petitioner for at least two years immediately preceding the presentation of the petition