Hello experts ,
I am a 27 years old married girl from odisha, During college days I met a guy and we are in gf-bf relationship . that guy had very poor financial condition , I always hep him financially many times, I was not very much attached to my parents that time . so I hide this relationship from them . oneday he begged me to help him financially to start a business , I was not earning that time . He suggested me if I sign on some court marriage paper, once he will get 2.5 LACs rupee from govt. once he get not bother me and give me divorce in nortary , he assured me that my father will not come to know about this , if my family do not agree on marriage , he will not trouble me in my future marriage with someone else. I was a emotional fool , I only went to court , I do not know about anything , he took his 3 friends with him for witness . I signed on court paper , I try to avoid him many times ,not agreeing on sign on papers , he said it can not be undone once you sign on first marriage paper , you have to complete the marriage procedure and had to go court for that. after that he was asking for a photo of wedding garland , I refused that , after this marriage , I try to avoid him and changed my job and went to another state for job. He did not succeeded in getting his money from government . I know I am the wrong doer here for not sharing all these with my parents. I really does not want to stay with him , he is very dominating , criminal ature , I am afraid , if he will do any harm to my family. because after marriage day , he threaten me that he will not leave me and will not allow anyone to marry me. I was in contact with him though phone only after our court marriage day , I was very much depressed . I did not want to live with him , never accepted him as my husband . I could not share these thing with my family . I always wanted a good marriage life myself , a good person in my life as my husband . I did a irreparable blunder in my life in 2019 by agreeing with his proposal and signed papers . In 2021 I met with a nice person through online matrimony , my family also agree with that proposal . we got married , I never told my husband about my court marriage only told him that I had a boyfriend in college and we broke up already since 2 years. Also I was in very much love with my husband . I never wanted to loose him , I was afraid how he will react when he will listen to my court marriage blunder. I never wanted to cheat him , I could not control myself and told him about all these things after 9 months of our marriage. He accepted my past , give emotional support to cope with this situation . I can now die in peace , I already told everything to love of my life. I want to live with him till I die.
but that BF guy came to know about our marriage through a common friend . He is furious , called my father threaten him to put my whole family in jail. My father is heart patient , I have a unmarried younger sister , my both parents are in govt job. To save my family reputation and not spoil my sister future . my father and a uncle of mine met the exBF guy's family , their family did not agree to compromise , My uncle and father cried and fall on foot of that guy , he agreed not to spoil my marriage life . we decided for a mutual divorce , he came on first session of divorce and signed on paper , we filed our petition , but he always wanted to talk with me , again threatening my family that they do not allow him to talk with me , he will disclose everything in front of judge , I do not want to talk with him , he is always drunken state, unstable in life ,not living with his family or siblings . if I talk always threatening me to tell everything to judge and broke my marriage . Also put my husband and in-laws behind bars to teach me a lesson . My husband and in-laws are at no fault . they never know about him before . I am frustrated,highly depressed , want to live a normal marriage life with my husband and my in-laws .
I have few queries , can someone please answer to put my mind at calm at least .
1. If he tell everything before the judge , will I be immediately put behind bar that day ?
2. Can I get bail immediately or I have to spend time in jail for few days ? will I get time to get bail ?
3. I am preparing for UPSC / state govt exam , If he file a case , will I lose my future career and job permanently if I selected in future ? (this thought is discouraging me and harm in my exam preparation .) ?
4. He is now on a mission to punish me and my whole family and in-laws , can he harm my husband and in-laws legally with any fake case ?
5. Will I ever able to get a divorce from him if he does not agree to divorce me mutually ?
6. even after I get divorce , can he still blackmail me to take legal step for same case ?