I have got married in the first week of June, 2015. The marriage was a christian marriage and it took place in Andhra Pradesh. On the first night itself my wife asked me two months of time for s*x and i agreed for that as there was no hurry and i thought whats the hurry as she is with me for entire life. I did not disclose this to anyone in family at that moment. After marriage and all rituals and reception (i.e, approx10 days) we returned to our home. I used to stay alone at my work place in Uttar Pradesh before marriage and after marriage i brought my wife to Uttar Pradesh.
The life was normal for a week or so and then my wife started requesting me to send her to her parents as her father is not well. But i somehow kept postponing the same. Just a day before completing one month to our marriage, My wife called me in office and asked me to rush home. When i reached home i found to my surprise that my wife was locking the door and my father in law with three other men outside my house. They handed over the keys and left the place. I was in shock and i messaged my wife expressing my feeling. She replied that as her father came suddenly and she already wanted to go, so she went.
I was very angry at that time and i dint care to answer my wife's calls and messages for 2-3 days. And after that there were no calls and messages.
After a month i emailed her regarding the issue and my wife replied with an allegation on me that i am impotent.
My wife and her parents also spread the message that i am impotent to all my relatives and known people in AP. I got my testerone test and semen anlysis test done at a reputed hospital in delhi and the results were normal.
Around one and half months after she left she lodged a complaint in police cell in AP againt me and my family members for demand of dowry, physically beating her and also that i am impotent. On the basis of complaint i was called for family councelling in AP. I attended the same, where my wife complained only that i am impotent. But during counselling my wife and their relatiives opted for mutual divorce and a demand of 75 Lakhs from me.I am very sure that i am not impotent and opting for mutual divorce will be like accepting that i am impotent.Till now the FIR has not been registered.
Please advice me on this case. If i let the FIR to be registered on the basis of her complaint then it would be a 498A case, How should i prevent myself from getting arrested and how should i proceed further in this case.