My husband and his family are harassing me very badly since the marriage for dowry money. now he is refusing to let me into his house. what should I do? it has been only 6 months since my marriage and I have suffered badly. please let me know how to file for harassment and whom to contact in bangalore. what evidence should I produce?
once if you go through legal process then your marriage will be more in trouble so first make your elders talk to them and settle the issue if the issue is not settled then go for domestic violence case
Well said sir... first Practical solution Verbally by elders. If all positive try will fail. second legal way may proceed, because both husband and wife needs to be understand will take minimum 1 year.
giving suggestion to anybody to file 498A as well DV case is not good idea becuase it's only time consumiing process and at end result will be nill.lawyers who are suggesting to file the case now,same lawyers will ask to compromise on case once they collected their money.so it's better to talk with elders first if not resolved then settel amicably.becuase once you file the cases 99% only settelemt which can be done with out filling the cases.
Thankyou for your immediate replies. He only allowed me to stay with him for 40 days after marriage and after that they have said if I do not bring money they won't allow. the elders have had around 2 to 3 rounds of talks but they have refused to let me inside the house. He is about to become a manager now and wants a wife who is his "status". Then my life would be ruined. I do not want a divorce. Please give me directions and show the way.
one natural question arises........if he is harrassing you to no extent....making your life miserable, yet you dont want a divorce??? a natural and logical reaction from any normal human being would be to distance himself/herself from the person who is harassing him/her, then why this two contrarain views.? you dont want divorce, you want to stay in the same house, yet you want to file cases. after the cases are filed, where will the situation take you to? you will be a stranger in the same house......i think you have not revealed the complete story, a coin has two sides. the other side is not yet revealed.