I am very grateful to Valentine sir. Some of my problems are cleared but I have other question to ask.
Please help me.
I am changing the lawyer ASAP. (she was working before as a junior person to my wife's advocate. my wife's advocate is one of the big lawyers and many advocates working under him.)
My wife case is false. She filed divorce case in 2009 for cruelty. We were married in 2003. it was a love marriage. We have no children. she wanted to live separately from my parents. I had an accident and illness. I became bald, no hairs on the head. I and my wife are employed.
I am retyping the stages as told by you.
Wife is state govt employee and I work in private company.
1. Petition by the petitioner
Wife filed it as cruelty. petition and also affidavit. marriage ceremony photo and with mangalsutra, saptapadi photo, marriage certificate, her father address, her pan number xerox, my address proof, our joint banck a/c xerox
She gave a list of ornaments, utensils, items, our both pan numbers and passport numbers. Asked to return all ornaments, items and everything. (but she asked 30 tola gold but her father had given only 12 tola gold but not officially my father also mafe ornaments of around 11 tola gold. gold price was 5000 per one tola during my marriage time)
2. Written Statement
I filed written statement with my lawyer. I want her to come back.
3. Wife submitted petition for maintenance on interim basis as a monthly payment and affidavit also with same wording in it.
She has written about my salary (43 thousand pm) and her salary as around 16 thousand only. But due to pay commision her salary wud be more than 16 thoudand.
But I work for 12 hours a day and she works only 4-5 hours a day in the lazy manner in govt office. Is it my fault?
4. I submitted my answer in reply document and also gave xerox copy of her pan, her office details, her old 2006, 2007 form 16, 16A xerox found at my home. also xerox that my father has invested in her joint name and my mother a plot of 7000 ft at my native place.
Argument that will happeen on next date is not for 1. and 2. but for point number 3. and 4. as above
I had a quarrel with my lawyer also. My lawyer was not comiing to court regularly. she did not add many things in my written statement that I told her. I am just wasting my paid leaves and having mental tension.
I want to attend at court alone. Is it possible?
This is the history until now.
What will happen in court on next date? this is my queestion. please help me.
I have not given any affidavit even once. But given many xerox copies of many documents.
I want my wife to come back. But she does not want to come back. She wants to live separate from my parents and near to her parents. The distance from that place wud be too long for me to go to work. She fights with my parents also. I am ready to live separate but not near to her parents.
At starting my lawyer gave me good advise and told that all allegations are only verbal and can not have proofs. But I want to say that all allegations are false only then where the question of proof? and court will not agree with it. But now lawyer is not helping me properly.
more than one year is passed with fighting with my wife. there is no end.
please tell me about your remaining steps properly upto judgement step 9.. and how much time it can take completely.
thanking you Sir. please help me.