Girl and lover went missing

Since the girl ran away with her lover, the boy and his family is not at fault. Since he lodged a complaint with the police, it will take some time to locate her and get her back, by which time the date of marriage may get past. So the parents of boy are advised to talk with parents of the girl to be refunded the marriage expenses borne by boy's parents. It's wrong on the girl's parents to try to get married off the girl with boy when she she is in love with other person. Talk in these lines with girl's parents.No need of asking No objection certificate as this is not a contract and moreover, they are on the erring side, not the boy.cancel the alliance and proceed with your life.

dear friend. as a lawyer and person of about your age i would highly recommend you to give up this matter and don't waste your energy first of all as from your story it reveals that girl also had hand in this and that was planned incidence. still if you want to teach them a lesson you can file criminal complaint under section 420 of indian penal code and in it you can ask for your expenditure.along with it you can add up charge of defamation and dont forget to make your parents as party since you were going to get married means your parents must be involved and this news might have been spread among relatives,neighbours and friends too. 

                           and about the girl i want to tell you that don't hurt yourself as girls go and come! concentrate on your career girls having more good looks will stick to you