Forced Marriage

Originally posted by : Dr. MPS RAMANI Ph.D.[Tech]
	You hire a good Muslim lawyer at Chennai.

what the lawyer at chennei will do.  case against him will be filed at cachar about 3000 Km away

Thanks for the reply. She's back with me. She told everything to her husband after the marriage. He don't have any issues with sending her. But he's also afraid of both families. In their native everyone thought like he came with her. But she came alone and he's staying at Guwahati. We don't know how to proceed further.

Thanks for the reply. She's back with me. She told everything to her husband after the marriage. He don't have any issues with sending her. But he's also afraid of both families. In their native everyone thought like he came with her. But she came alone and he's staying at Guwahati. We don't know how to proceed further.

Normally you can go to the registrar of marriages and get married under the Special Marriages Act following all the procedures. One requirement would be that each one of you  will have to declare that  you iwere not already married to someone else. If she discloses her previous marriage and says that it was a forced marriage I do not know what stand the registrar would take. In Tamilnadu police stations can conduct marriages when parents do not agree to the marriage. You may contact a  marriage lawyer and take his advice.

Since she is now already married forced or otherwise and that too at far away Cachar things are a bit complicated.

Thanks. She said there were no papers signed while marrying. So I think it's not legally done.

Originally posted by : Ramiz
	Thanks for the reply. She's back with me. She told everything to her husband after the marriage. He don't have any issues with sending her. But he's also afraid of both families. In their native everyone thought like he came with her. But she came alone and he's staying at Guwahati. We don't know how to proceed further.

OK. Go ahead.  Commit one more crime of adultery for having s*x with other's wife.

Originally posted by : Ramiz
	Thanks. She said there were no papers signed while marrying. So I think it's not legally done.

Ha Ha Ha.

 

No papers need to be signed. except

 

In Muslim Nikahnama is signed.

 

In christian the curch register of marriage is signed.

 

You have not told religion of the girl and her husband. 

if she is hindu the marriage is binding on both on completion of religious ceremoney.

 

 

A Hindu marriage is a valid marriage if performed in a customary manner even if no papers are signed. Her Hindu marriage husband and her relatives can still give problem if they want so. Even if they do not give problems now they can do that later also.  Proving facts can be extremely difficult. If you had filed a habeas corpus petition she would have been produced  before the court and all her statements would have legal validity. As she has already met you habeas corpus is not possible.  Now you find out whether she can give a sworn affidavit before a magistrate stating all the facts and whether the registrar of marriages will accept. Both of you must have valid age proof also.

whether you deny or she denies in whatever words or under whatever misconception, she is someone else's wife

What is given above is only the personal opinion of Mr. Sudhir Kumar. If the matter is taken to court only the judge will decide taking into account all the narrations of all the parties before the court. If the narrations presented here are true and proven before the court, the court can decide the marriage at Cachar ab initio null and void. No one can be forced into a marriage.

It is your life and you have right to spoil the same.

 

say thanks to Mr Ramani.

How am i going to spoil life? We both wants to get married. And she has already submitted the affidavit, through all procedures and coverted to Islam. Later all these things happened. She is with me now. Everyone from her native are still trying to convince her. And they dont want to take all these things to court. As per the advice from an advocate we have planned to sort it out by making them understand the situations. Since she was already pregnant for 4 months with my child at the time of marriage, it can lead to family problems. Everyone from native can stand against her family. I dont want to give a hard time for her family, because its not her parents or sisters. Their uncle's forced her to do the marriage. And her husbands family will not accept her anymore in this kind of situation.

Mr. Ramiz: You have misguided all the people here. At first you wrote " Due to our different religions we have planned to move forward with the current religions throughout life."   Now you say  "she has already submitted the affidavit, through all procedures and coverted to Islam." So this is love jihad, am I right? At first a pretence of love, make her pregnant, and then  jihad. You are not honest. If you are an honest person, get married under the Special Marriages Act without changing religions. Let when the child in her womb comes out  decide whether he or she should follow any religion or do not want any religion at all after  attaining majority. Otherwise you are an agent and Mr. Sudhir Kumar was right. Poor girl and her family. Probably RSS is right.

Conversion to religion should be based on conviction and not for the convenience of s*x or marriage. Religion should not be a s*x trap.

Her so called 'forced marriage' husband cannot say talak, talak, talak and divorce her.

It's my mistake I posted here. I haven't seen dumbest people's like u. U both really tried to misguided us instead of giving advise. I know RSS can only do these kind of stuffs. First study about marriage laws. For Muslim marriage to be valid the girl should accept Islam. Instead of accepting Islam she only gave the idea to submit according to Islam way. That doesn't mean that I forced her to convert. What the he'll you know about Jihad? You know who created Love Jihad? It's RSS. To spoil the relationship with both religions for making riots. What will u guys say for that? Loving Muslim girls and converting to them? Because we don't cares. Our religion taught us how to live. Not to fight in the name of Religions.. Try to see others as brothers and sisters. Try to obey them other than spoiling. I guessed when u first told to contact a Muslim lawyer. Do u know one thing? India is the only country who encourages intercaste marriage. But some hardcore religious guys like u will be there to spoil it, who thinks u knw God personally. I never wanted to spoil a girls marriage. That's why I asked here for a suggestion. And u guys took it only in the meaning of s*xual pleasure. U guys are not humans. Only aim is to harass Muslims and says like helping others. Shame on u guys. U guys can only see Muslims as terrorists. Think when, how and for what purpose terrorists occurred? Anyone can blame everyone, first think. We're all humans. We have parents, sister's and brother's like u do. We never born as a terrorists. It's all situation makes them. Please don't harass me anymore. I just want to live my life with the girl I loved.