Sir, I always told her that marriage cannot happen between us. Not only me, but my mother also used to say the same thing to her. Even then, she tricked me. I would have thought of being with her if she had came directly. But with so much planning and trickery? No-way.
As for why she chose only ME? let me try to sum it up:-
1] I am the only son in the family. No brothers or sisters.
2] It means that all the property of my parents will be mine later on. And, she has seen what kind of property we have here. Since she used to live in the house we rented, which is in the centre of the city and commands a huge value.
3] My Job. Merchant Navy. It is a high paying job.
4] Her freedom to do anything. I will be sailing on the high seas and she could do WHATEVER she wants and with WHOEVER she want, without interruption or any fear. She has some relation going on with her accomplice guy, with whom, she tricked me into this.
I think those are pretty strong reasons. As far as legality of this marriage is considered.
1] There were no rituals like Saptapadi, etc. NOTHING AT ALL. I can prove that.
2] No elders were present. Not even the priest.
3] There is no marriage certificate or anything to legalize or atleast show that this happened.
4] They forcibly took my signature on Legal Non-Judicial Bond which stated that marriage occured. It is signed by the Notary. But as far as I know, unless and until it is signed by Addtional District Judge or someone with a rank like that, That legal paper holds no value.
5] I have a copy of their chat conversations which shows all of their planning out in open.
Now my thinking is: -
1] I never started any life with her. She lives with her parents and I live with mine.
2] Since the legality of this marriage is almost Non-Existant, I am thinking of completing my training and then, prepare myself for legal battle. Please correct me on this one.
3] Even if she files atrocities case, and I know that she can do it, she won't be able to prove it. And as far as I know, she won't do that. Since this would open up the truth to her parents too. Yes, her parents don't know that this thing happened.
4] My final option is to go and tell HER parents that she is doing these sorts of things and harassing me. I don't know how far it would help, but it should.
Any suggestions and corrections would be of great help. Thank you all very much......