Are u insane!!
Whatsoever the ground you create or genuinely have it with you,...........................
if another spouse wants to delay the divorce or deny by delay, then there are loads of techniques that the other spouse makes use of or rather asks the lawyer to apply it. The lawyer just delivers what is expected by the client.
Issue of summons
prolonged hearing cycle, adournments, transfers
Counters Apps, interim maint, 498a, DV, stay, streedhan, injuction, alimony
Review at trial Court,
revision at upper court,
then appeal at HC for int. apps
and then appeal at SC.
Are u saying u can get it quickly!! People were eye witnesses for that ajmal kasab who was shooting and killing people, which is already in recordings on CCTV, mobile also.
Still it took 1 year and still going on in Upper court.
A word of advise: My suggestion to you..... whenever you go to a doctor, do you have a feeling that "you have generated a 'rozgar' for the doctor?.........simple answer would be NO.
You should have same thinking while approaching to a lawyer!!! B'cos its your problem that u cudn't sort out. If you think you are generating employment for legal professionals then you are utterly wrong!!!!......only you and your wife are to blame.
There is something called "sheding away resistance" and "agree to disagree" , "power of forgiving" , "essence of acceptance of past which can't be changed..even defeat" then even defeat won't look like a defeat.
Acceptance and forgiving is the key. Even if the other party mocks you that 'it was not forgiving but it was weakness' yet it is what it is.
It's easy to commit collateral damage but it's couragous to sustain damage and be sensitive to opponent.
Is it difficult for india to drop a dozen atom bombs on neighbour? at the max, india would recive a half dozen of the same in reply. But finally tally would be in india's side. Is that what anybody would want?