I need your input over my query.
Recently my in-laws came to us for a settlement offer saying that the case will take 4 years atleast to get resolved and they are in rush to get the divorce the case is also filed in a family court. They wanted money in exchange for withdrawal of the case, although i am in a position to settle this financially, i refused blatantly because if i do so it means i am admitting to the accusations made against me and on principle i refused and told them to go screw themselves up.
After that incident, in the recent divorce court date, the opponents lawyer asked to judge to accord his client divorce because there is no scope to save the marraige. So my query is
1) Will the judge approve his request and confer divorce to her without my consent, or without her proving the accusations she made against me?
2)Will the judge wait till the 498a and DV case are solved, where also again she has to prove any wrong doings on my part that she claimed in her FIR report?
3)If the judge bestows divorce, then she will be off the hook and she will never withdraw the 498a and DV case against me, and lead a happy life while pushing me to the abyss, which will be total unfair and injustice on my part, how can i see that she does not get divorce before the 498a and DV case are resolved?
I asked my lawyer but he is not giving me any substantial answer. I know he is busy with other cases but, i am paying for my service and i feel he is not giving me any strategy of how to proceed with the case, i cannot switch the lawyers because he is best local lawyer available there.
Expert inputs will be much appreciated, please help me.